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Not at all times but there'd be times when it'd feel so sickeningly good you'll cry like that. Only if u were compatible with your partner or your partner is just good in bed. But most of the times it's just so-so. You'd be lucky to find one whose actually compatible with you lol

thank you, youre awesome for this. i wasn't aware compatibility mattered

It only feels good when you do it with someone you love tbh

not when your partner doesn't know what he's doing and prioritizes only his pleasure ;(

I haven't experienced it with sex but I have with masterbating. I don't think it's a super common thing too, like that thing of sneezing when you think of someone attractive, I do that too and think it's also linked to getting tearful when experiencing intense pleasure. It's just so intense that your face burns and it makes tears well up, not that it's painful or is emotional or anything like that which I've seen manga's portray it as and I find that interesting that people seem to not understand it.

Sorry u experienced that hopefully that person dies

im so sorry you experienced that

this is actually really informative. this makes me wonder why hook up culture is still a thing then

ohh i think i get what you mean. in my experience, my face has gotten hot but i guess not to the extent where i tear up. thank you though:)

Ig just for the lust and sexual desire my friend told me when everything was done and the lust is gone she doesn’t feel anything but empty

As for someone who used to frequent hook-ups before (like till last year) I did it cause I craved a certain level of physical intimacy, without actually committing onto something or someone. Or maybe just to fill the loneliness I have without commitment. Or maybe I'm just too scared with the thought of doing the did with the person I love, be attached and would end up being betrayed/ cheated on by him, ending with us being strangers.

Like for me before, its better to fill the loneliness with something fleeting than with a relationship cause if so then I won't feel hurt that much cause I don't really expect anything. I'm too emotional when I'm attached to a person and it takes a really long time for me to move on/ heal myself from it. I actually still reminisce some situationships I had tho I still long for a pure relationship with someone and eventually doing it with them out of love. But maybe the time wasn't just right and I still need some maturing and learning to do in life.

That's all just wanna type this up to get it off my chest. Cause I too sometimes question myself as to why I did that back then and now I know but still, hopefully, I won't go back to hook-up culture fr now cause it feels too self degrading now that I think about it.

Oh wow thank u for sharing ur perspective <3

thank you this is so eye opening! i also hope you find and receive the live you deserve:)