Talking is always hard when you have anxiety, that’s what I’ll say
I already had this discussion and it's okay if you can handle being with such a person but I could never
I get that, a lot of the time you wind up thinking "this will just make me a bother" or "talking won't fix the issue anyway I'm the issue" but talking helps an issue so much more than one might think.
also when you're in a relationship.. at some point you gotta grow some balls. and I'm speaking from personal experience, being the individual refusing to communicate.
it's so aggravating and unfair and hurtful to your partner to constantly keep your mouth shut and suffer in silence... to make the assumption that speaking to them about issues in your relationship is a hopeless endeavour.
That's what I think. I don't have a problem with people HAVING anxiety. It's about atleast trying to communicate. Sometime it is about the thought that counts, if I see that someone tries his best. But I often see people leaning themselves back on having anxiety and making it the excuse for everything. I see that behaviour in MC. And I could and would never be with someone like this who just gives up
I said it before and I'll say it now: the insecurities of MC are annoying af, TALK. That's not so hard