and btw even tho everytime i said why are you guys cramming at school you have the friday after you go home after school and the saturday and sunday to do the supposed to be a HOMEWORK they said we had so much household works i have a church i relax weekend means vacation (they said) then they will ask for my work and said let me see I'll copy it okay?
Bro as long as it's good for your grades you don't have to feel guilty. Friends shouldn't be a shackle to your success. You didn't do anything wrong.
And if you still feel guilty, apologize to them properly. That's all
dont feel bad about it.. they should be responsible and take accountability for their actions. let them reflect and stand firm on your decision. im guessing youre in high school but even so, you'll survive. just focus on your grades and you'll be fine. im curious tho, what country are you from?
You shouldn’t feel guilty at all!! I get where your friends are coming from but to guilt trip you like that is so wrong. They should have genuinely asked you why without making you feel bad. Knowing what they did—it’s totally understandable why you chose not to group with them. Doing all the work for a group project is exhausting because I’ve been there. I think you should explain your side on why you chose not to group with them. If they totally dismiss you, didn’t try to understand your side, and gaslight you into thinking you’re the one in the wrong, then they shouldn’t be your friends. I hope you’re able to properly talk to them about this.
Good luck !! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Look here stop being a carpet rug for people ,and put your school work 1st and yourself.
Your friends seem like they are only using you for their own gain's.
And if you keep helping them you'll actually have a burnout.
Honestly that kind of friend is not a friend. You are being taken advantage of. Have you ever told them to get their shit together and do their duty as a student at least once? If you had already and they didn't do that, leave them. Do not waste on people who clearly didn't share the same will. Its okay if you want to have fun but study and learning is also important. Sorry if its sounds harsh but thats how i see it as an adult
This is 100% true
thank you everyone i didn't honestly expect a lot of people to reply and you guys are totally right i should really talk this out with them as I've also been their "school supplier" i get that they are not financially stable but my school supplies are not really brought by my own money but by my Older sister's.. they use all of mine and if i didn't lend it to them I'll be the mean or stingy one (Every day also like last year.) fyi we're also not really financially stable but they are more on the unfortunate side.
so My friends are like kinda slow and I'm an achiever had high grades and so I've been having trouble with my friends because they have not been doing what they are supposed to be and should be doing.. we have been in groupings for a lot of subs and mostly I'm basically doing it all because they all yap and have fun and don't actually do what supposed to be done and I've been stressing out and one time we had to group our selves into 4 and another friend invited me to be with him and i agreed cause why not and after that my friend group said hey why would you leave name, name? why did you group with another??? we two left on purpose to group with others(we 6) even tho we wanted to group with you guys so much because we don't want anyone or them to feel left out and then you leave them? why? you guys are supposed to have an exact number and now they have to find another group!(my english is bad i know) then after that i feel so guilty and the day after that they also made me feel so guilty.