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Your explanation is clear and thoughtful. I find it frustrating how gender stereotypes in BL persist, such as the belief that pretty or beautiful men should exclusively be bottoms. This belief is harmful because it perpetuates the notion that men who display feminine traits or look more feminine will always be the receiving partner and that only masculine men can be the dominant partner. These stereotypes reinforce harmful gender norms and limit individual expression. I wish there was more natural men as bottom to be honest, I'm sick and tired of the typical tropes in BL.
I love how both the MC and the ML have not only similar d*** size but also similar physique… gone are the days of twinkification and heteronormative nonsense in BL, i.e. the tops as well as bottoms interactions, behaviour, physique, and more.