that is the thing if he tells he will worry if he doesnt tell he will still worry
yeah so might as well tell him instead of someone else telling him or what just happened here, him eavesdropping on a conversation by accident. like it's ok to worry about stuff, but if you communicate with your partner about your past and your feelings, your relationship will work. if you keep stupid secrets intent on not hurting your partner, shit isn't going to work. because secrets don't last, and your partner will still find out somehow. it's a 2 way street and they're both adults.
idk feels disrespectful to just disregard your partner as a weak baby that can't handle shit and that you need to keep secrets so you won't hurt his feelings.
Yeah you are also right. But i still cannot see anyone at fault.
that's understandable. relationships are tough, and ppl are complicated lol
"don't tell him i don't want him to worry." bro...what? you should tell him so he doesn't worry. shit will come out eventually. just be honest about stuff with your partner. don't keep stupid secrets. unless your partner literally tells you they don't wanna know, and that's concerning in and of itself as well lol