First love is that important ?

Luca_usk February 22, 2025 11:48 pm

I just don’t understand the thing with « first love » being an uncomfortable topic between a couple, like, we all have at least two serious relationships by the age of 23-25, so if u meet someone then, u dont have to feel bad cuz ur not that persons first love
I just dont think its a big deal not to be ur partners first love..

Responses
    Pluto February 22, 2025 11:52 pm

    I think it has more to with the fact that his first love experience was horrible, made him hurt a lot and made him have really bad trust issues. And because of it he had a harder time to get into the new relationship really as he was scared to commit because he might get hurt like that again.

    Pluto February 22, 2025 11:53 pm

    other than that on a normal first love yeah no I would not think it's an issue

    Smelli ^^ February 22, 2025 11:53 pm

    I think that the bottom may have had a pretty bad experience with his ex, and he’s guessing that the top might want to find out everything about their past relationship, but the bottom doesn’t want to go into that, which is why he’s avoiding telling him anything at all.

    Smelli ^^ February 22, 2025 11:55 pm
    I think that the bottom may have had a pretty bad experience with his ex, and he’s guessing that the top might want to find out everything about their past relationship, but the bottom doesn’t want to go in... Smelli ^^

    but if you’re speaking about ALL couples, (unless they had a really bad break up/ relationship) i wouldn’t know why they don’t wanna get into the topic of their first love

    Luca_usk February 22, 2025 11:55 pm
    I think it has more to with the fact that his first love experience was horrible, made him hurt a lot and made him have really bad trust issues. And because of it he had a harder time to get into the new relati... Pluto

    Well yep for the MCs experience its kinda different so it’s understandable, but still it’s usually an uncomfortable topic between partners, and we see one of them getting sad for not being the other ones first love, in my personal opinion its not really a problem.. correct me if im wrong

    Luca_usk February 22, 2025 11:57 pm
    but if you’re speaking about ALL couples, (unless they had a really bad break up/ relationship) i wouldn’t know why they don’t wanna get into the topic of their first love Smelli ^^

    Exactlyyy, haven’t you seen couples not liking the topic ? I see those a lot and its very confusing for me

    Pluto February 22, 2025 11:59 pm
    Well yep for the MCs experience its kinda different so it’s understandable, but still it’s usually an uncomfortable topic between partners, and we see one of them getting sad for not being the other ones fi... Luca_usk

    I don't think I have a personal experience cause Iv'e never Tra la la'ed with anyone but I'll take your word for it.

    Smelli ^^ February 22, 2025 11:59 pm
    Exactlyyy, haven’t you seen couples not liking the topic ? I see those a lot and its very confusing for me Luca_usk

    yeah

    Luca_usk February 23, 2025 1:43 pm
    I don't think I have a personal experience cause Iv'e never Tra la la'ed with anyone but I'll take your word for it. Pluto

    Girly me too.. i only had one bf and nd it was long distance, so i donno im just talking bout what i see and think-