im so sad

datura February 20, 2025 9:45 pm

Sometimes i wonder, if you loved someone so much, can you really go straight to hating them? I’ve only been with one bf and even if we split up or he did something bad, I feel like I know he wouldn’t have wanted to hurt me cuz I wouldn’t have dated him if he was that type of person. I guess people can change, and also a lot of people don’t start as friends and then date after knowing each other and liking each other for many months, so maybe it’s just because I’m picky. But how does juheon not realize that dohu loved him when he already knew that dohu had problems reading the room, he even stood up for him when someone insulted him.

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    madman badman February 20, 2025 10:15 pm

    I understand what you mean, but Dohu’s problem is more than “just reading the room”, he’s rarely forthcoming and so it appears that he’s never honest. He kinda just glosses over everything, and to that in a relationship is kinda…you know, mean

    OxU February 20, 2025 10:56 pm

    The more you love someone the more hurt you’ll be if they betray you and the more hatred you’ll show towards them. If some other friend did this he wouldn’t care as much but it was someone he fully loved and trusted so of course he’s really hurt. And I don’t think this is hatred. He’s hurt. He’s angry.

    datura February 21, 2025 7:49 am
    I understand what you mean, but Dohu’s problem is more than “just reading the room”, he’s rarely forthcoming and so it appears that he’s never honest. He kinda just glosses over everything, and to tha... madman badman

    yea, you’re right. when he realized he only ever saw juheon bc juheon sought him out i was like how horrible

    datura February 21, 2025 7:51 am
    The more you love someone the more hurt you’ll be if they betray you and the more hatred you’ll show towards them. If some other friend did this he wouldn’t care as much but it was someone he fully loved ... OxU

    I agree, it probably isn’t hatred now that ur saying this. its so sad and ik the season is gonna end on an ass note :(