Yikes

Rose359652 February 20, 2025 8:31 am

His obsession kinda gave me ptsd, a guy I used to talk to behaved like this and it was so draining and just a horrible experience

Responses
    AkiraAmira February 20, 2025 4:20 pm

    Well you're not jeong yoon and the guy you talk to is not chae heon so it's different.. jeong yoon prob is the type of person who can receive heavy love so they match each other.

    grisfox February 20, 2025 6:25 pm
    Well you're not jeong yoon and the guy you talk to is not chae heon so it's different.. jeong yoon prob is the type of person who can receive heavy love so they match each other. AkiraAmira

    That's kind of a horrible thing to say to someone talking about being traumatized. (⊙_⊙ )

    grisfox February 20, 2025 6:32 pm
    Well you're not jeong yoon and the guy you talk to is not chae heon so it's different.. jeong yoon prob is the type of person who can receive heavy love so they match each other. AkiraAmira

    Because you probably won't get it, the messed up thing about your comment is the implication that the problem was op's personality type instead of their partner's behavior. It's victim blaming. I don't know where you get the audacity to tell an actual person that, but it's awful.

    AkiraAmira February 21, 2025 12:36 am
    Because you probably won't get it, the messed up thing about your comment is the implication that the problem was op's personality type instead of their partner's behavior. It's victim blaming. I don't know whe... grisfox

    Wdym you probably don't get it? Y'all super sensitive ass ppl i can't

    The OG can read the story so i assume they can handle this simple sht no? Also associating your real life with fiction is not even good...

    Rose359652 February 21, 2025 6:32 am
    Wdym you probably don't get it? Y'all super sensitive ass ppl i can't The OG can read the story so i assume they can handle this simple sht no? Also associating your real life with fiction is not even good... AkiraAmira

    It’s not like we knew about his deep rooted obsession from the beginning? And yeah of course I’m associating it with real life bc things like that ARE REAL. I wasn’t even officially with this guy but he would follow me to the gym (I was unaware until a friend of mine spotted him in the parking lot) and would make me feel bad for hanging out with my friends cuz he wanted me to use my time just for him, you like this person so you don’t see the red flags. It’s terrifying to always be on edge that someone might be following you especially as a woman, one of my aunts was murdered by a guy she dated so of course things like these where people become dangerously obsessive is gonna trigger something in me, and it’s not like I can know if a manhwa is gonna have something like that in their story. So maybe if you have nothing nice to say next time just don’t comment at all, you don’t know what someone has or is going through