people might hate juheon but his reaction is realistic. i know dohu is on the spectrum but...

BUT HE'S REGRETFUL THO LOOK AT THE BAGS BABE THE GROCERY BAGS UNDER HIS EYESSSSSS

but look at what he said to juheon after not meeting for 2 weeks even i would get mad if sorry isn't the first word that comes out of his mouth

I kind of hate that people blame Juheon's reactions on Dohu, it's really unfair. The guy clearly doesn't understand, and his brain isn't wired that way. What do you mean if Dohu handled it differently? You don't expect someone to understand if you don't explain things. If Juheon had explained why he was upset at Dohu, I think he'd get the sincere apology he was hoping for instead of whatever this crashout is.

True but look at the meaning behind what he actually said .. I took it as he doesn't wanna be away from him anymore

He did explain Dohu knows why he's mad he's just conflicted about what he wants vs what Juheon wants.i think

No he didn't? He straight up started with gaslighting. "You only had ulterior motives when you approached me, did you ever genuinely like me?". To which Dohu explained it might've started that way at first but he likes him for real now. But Juheon got hung on up the fact that he found out much later into their relationship (like why does that even matter now?), and then storms off.
Juheon never explained the gravity of what this meant to him, and even I, as a normie, nevermind Dohu who's on the spectrum, can't seem to understand what exactly he wants /NOW/ at this juncture.

I'd also like to add that I have 2 very close people to me who are on the spectrum and are a bit socially daft. But getting angry, aggressively pushing them against the wall and then blaming them for not doing better or have understanding is like the shittiest thing you could do to someone who isn't on the same wavelength as you and genuinely has trouble seeing things the same way you do. It takes time, lots of communication, and explanation. Not storming off and leaving them on read for 2 weeks only to cut them off. Juheon has baggage that he's projecting angrily onto Dohu and is being an immature little shit right now; even if his feelings on the matter are valid.

Cant say I don't agree with you and unfortunately that's how it would have went down irl with humans also. There's never any communication just assumptions, self pity and a whole lot of angry quite frankly. I just hoped they'd make up fast but from the raws hm..

juheon's reactions are valid. dohu is the one who owe juheon explanations not the other way around. dohu knows what he did, he's not that dumb to still ask why juheon was upset. there's no need for juheon to explain something so obvious. if dohu's conversation starter is to until when juheon's gonna be mad at him after 2 weeks of no contact, that would trigger anyone even the kindest people. that's what he should've done differently. i don't understand why juheon hoping for a sincere apology should be used against him, when that's what he deserved atleast.

I see you've got comprehension issues, just untag me. We're clearly reading different stories. No one said Juheon's feelings aren't invalid, but the way he's treating and belittling Dohu is straight up uncalled for, and no amount of anger validates that. No one is denying him an apology, but you can't force one out when the other person genuinely looks confused and doesn't understand. That's just gaslight-bully behaviour. And if you can't see that, and feel that Juheon is entitled to his behaviour then that's really sad.