i feel like over sharing so i’ll tell you guys why i stayed with him for so long, i dated him my freshman year of HS, 5 months into the relationship i realized i wasn’t physically attracted to him or men in that matter, i tried making up so many excuses since i had liked this boy for YEARS, i remember talking to my friend trying to rationalize and convince myself that i was still into this man by being all “yeah im just emotionally attracted to men, not physically though” at some point i just felt bland about the relationship and realized i just wasn’t into men, maybe that’s why he cheated on me. and thank god for that i needed an excuse to get away since my parents loved him and that way it made me the perfect victim in the relationship (he then proceeded to date my ex girlfriend just 2 months after she broke up with me in Junior year)
I mean this in the most respectful way but my jaw literally dropped I was thinking yea,. Yeah, real and then I read "maybe that's why he cheated on me" and my mouth hit the floor
And then he dated ur ex girlfriend?? Oh my god?? hopefully things going better now for sure
no cuz i get where she’s coming from, if my ex boyfriend started dating a man after breaking up with me i would have the same thoughts as her… too bad it was the other way around and i was the one who ended up finding out i was a lesbian halfway into the relationship LMAOO