am i crazy

also… i don’t like the guy she ended up with. he feels kinda shallow and the story felt like a.. “oh you’re so different and not like other girls” and lowkey pushed a bit of misogynistic ideals?? like she was a normal girl who is afraid of men. but, he liked her because she was “sincere” (direct quote).. like… he had never met a sincere woman before? after sleeping with like thousands of women? idk. just rubbed me the wrong way. （￣へ￣）

The author def didn’t develop his backstory enough. I felt like something more to his character was brewing, but the author forgot abt it. But hey, at least he’s a good guy o sian, and honestly sleeping around isn’t bad. It’s socially looked down upon, but being in consenting relationships at a frequent pace is honestly not anything terrible

see i have no issues with sleeping around at all! as long as ur getting ur health screenings who am i to judge? but, my main point with that was he’s clearly met a lot of women.. and she’s the ONLY woman he’s ever met that was sincere? just seems like a weird plot point to be like “she’s so different” when the reality is a sincere woman isn’t hard to find. felt slightly misogynistic and outdated of a concept. once again, glad sian is able to be happy! he treats her nicely. just wish we got to know more about him that way we could see him as a better guy.

You bring a very valid point! That type of mentality is definitely very rooted in misogyny and insecurity. Which, i believe he def struggled with, for a lack of a better word.