Are we supposed to ignore that this is like, highly unprofessional

Yes, of course.

As we as fans ignore the fact that we will never even breath the same air as our idols.

We just ignore it to keep the fantasy.

So, ignore how this would end in a scandal and firing or scandal and police report in the real world.

World of manga/manhwa is good and nice :)

It's litterally bl i don't think anyone cares