
She's not disciplining him per day
If she was, she wouldn't turn a blind eye to a child being abused. His personality and the way he turned out is clearly a product of his shitty upbringing, if she truly cared for him she would've tried to separate him from his father
While at some points what she is doing is changing his personality, most of her reason for her actions is to get back at him for her past life. She clearly states in the recent chapter that the only reason she is even talking to him, is because she wants to use him as he's a probable successor.

Completely agree!
Also, for the other commenter, she's in the position of a child she can't do everything, she can't save everyone and she also doesn't want to save everyone. She puts herself first as she should because she has been made to do that as she doesn't have parents and her grandfather has bad health. So I think she already did enough by teaching him a lesson and taking him put of the abusive house. Also the "bullying" is very light and it kind of also teaches him that not everyone will say yes to what he wants, not everyone will agree with him or be nice to him.

Sweetheart that's what I've been saying. I never said she should save everyone or that I didn't understand why she's focusing on only her grandfather and her future. But what I'm saying is that given the fact she is an adult, it leaves a distaste in my mouth seeing that she's blatantly ignoring the very prominent abuse Oleg faces.
While obviously her abuse was much worse and much more often, Oleg's abuse exists as well, so seeing someone who is supposed to have an adult mentality, clearly thinking about using a child and hating them for what they did in her past life, is kinda shitty.

Wait, was she even an adult? in her previous life it did not seem like she had a someone who she would learn from. So it would not make sense to have her suddenly be caring for basically strangers who’s disrupting the only person who she and the og mc cared for the grandpa. I can see what you're saying. In her previous life she was also neglected, had no good role models, does not know the appropriate way to handle this bcs she’s a child herself.
As much as I dislike Oleg, he is still a child. The main reason he turned out like that is because of that piece of a shit father.
So seeing a regressor with an adult mental age bully a child does at the end of the day leave a distaste in my mouth. (Not saying I don't understand her reasons though)