Make believe

Mistress_RA February 13, 2025 7:53 am

So, for those of you who love to whine/ complain about how wrong and gross this manwha is... you have the right to do so. I respect it. But keep in mind that others also have the right to comment to your comment. Here we go... I just want to say I'm okay with this storyline because it is MAKE BELIEVE! (I'll say it again for those in the back just in case you missed it.) This is MAKE BELIEVE! That is what manwha is pure d fiction. If we were reading an autobiography then hell yeah I would smh with you. HOWEVER, we are reading MAKE BELIEVE! That is why you should read the summary. Even if you missed the summary/the first chapter or two, you should realize it's about stepbrother bl omegaverse, incest etc., )technically this on NOT incest), then find something that aligns with your make believe moral compass. There are plenty of yaoi/bl nontoxic manwha. Why digust yourself willingly by reading something you know is a hard no/pass for you, just so you can complain? That's like me consciously drinking drano just to complain so I can be heard/seen. (⊙…⊙ ) It's not much I don't like here but if i do I keep it moving and find something else. Dring! The mangago but at top left is a beautiful button to get me back to homepage. ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ
But for real for real, all I'm saying is there are many like me who enjoy different types of make believe manwha. I'm not hating on you cause you don't like it. I personally read the comments for potential spoilers ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ But it always amazes me how many ppl continue to read what they find disgusting just so they can tell ppl how disgusted they feel like it will make a difference or like anyone really care or like it will stop the show. This is liked more than ppl realize. If there was no market for it ppl wouldn't bother writing it.
Low key, I understand and respect ppl not liking it. But, why keep reading things that you will lose your stomach over? Ijs (This wasn't written to offend per se but this is what I always think when reading these types of comments). Have a happy day!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ノ~

Responses
    kaii February 13, 2025 6:07 pm

    Sorry but I might have to disagree, the art an artist makes reflects the artists um..."true nature" and same with the reader and the thing they're reading. For eg if someone enjoys reading a manhwa about s.a. disguised as romance, they're re a creep but a bit less than the author. Im not talking about this particular manhwa but I've seen this trope alot in most works so..yeah, hope you understand bud.

    Rina February 13, 2025 11:18 pm
    Sorry but I might have to disagree, the art an artist makes reflects the artists um..."true nature" and same with the reader and the thing they're reading. For eg if someone enjoys reading a manhwa about s.a. d... kaii

    This is so not true.

    Mistress_RA February 14, 2025 7:27 am
    Sorry but I might have to disagree, the art an artist makes reflects the artists um..."true nature" and same with the reader and the thing they're reading. For eg if someone enjoys reading a manhwa about s.a. d... kaii

    Yeah like @Rina I would have to disagree. People write all kinds of different subjects that doesn't necessarily mean that is their true nature. Most times people may write about things they know of, want to bring attention to, or MAY fantasize about. SOME could be personal experiences of themselves or a loved one, and others could be of experiences they have heard of or come across some other way. But let's play devils advocate for a moment... Even IF a manwha is the AUTHORS true nature how does it impact you? In what way, besides you forcing yourself to read something so uncomfortable, does this impact you personally/ your day to day life? People really trip me out how they are quick to put labels on people they don't even personally know. So let me ask you, how are you basing your facts? Is there a post somewhere where there was an official statistical investigation about people who write manwha that explicitly states what they write is a reflection of their RL true nature? If so, please provide us those sources? There may be some one interested in following. (Me personally I could care less. I'm here for entertainment purposes.) So outside of that it appears to me you are making an assumption. Those types of assumptions have gotten ppl killed in the past, as well as ruined lives. So bud I don't see what point you were making nor do I understand. What it's looking like is you are the type that judges books by their cover. Metaphorically speaking. That's not a good look. But to each their own. Do you boo. But in the meantime in between time come with something true not what you would like ppl to believe based on your own thinkings.

    Addy February 14, 2025 11:25 am
    Sorry but I might have to disagree, the art an artist makes reflects the artists um..."true nature" and same with the reader and the thing they're reading. For eg if someone enjoys reading a manhwa about s.a. d... kaii

    That’s just not true

    kaii February 14, 2025 5:13 pm
    Yeah like @Rina I would have to disagree. People write all kinds of different subjects that doesn't necessarily mean that is their true nature. Most times people may write about things they know of, want to bri... Mistress_RA

    Alright idk in what context you're speaking but mine here was mainly ecchi/hentai content or some abusive yaois artists make with the literal label of r*pe or c.p. with actual comments of people 'enjoying' them (which I have accidentally stumbled upon alot) ; i actually agree with the first part about some works being something of an imaginative fantasy or a topic the author wants to bring attention to. I hope you understand what I meant there. Again, bud, idk to what context you took my statement or what proved to be so offensive. I would personally say I am not much of a person who bases books with their covers but I am not one who stands with people liking misogynistic/abusive works because that is them indirectly justifying the authors work. (By abusive i mean content of abuse for the purpose of pleasure, not awareness) And I took the step to say this because I have seen it a lot and it deeply disturbs me.

    dilfs February 14, 2025 6:47 pm
    Sorry but I might have to disagree, the art an artist makes reflects the artists um..."true nature" and same with the reader and the thing they're reading. For eg if someone enjoys reading a manhwa about s.a. d... kaii

    This is so wrong and harmful to say. I don’t even have the words for this but you are on a very very wrong track …

    please consume your media mindfully in a right way. just because people enjoy for example rape fiction, doesn’t mean that they actually think the idea of real life rape is fine. Just because people enjoy horror movies doesn’t mean they want people to be brutally murdered.

    kaii February 15, 2025 10:41 am
    This is so wrong and harmful to say. I don’t even have the words for this but you are on a very very wrong track …please consume your media mindfully in a right way. just because people enjoy for example ra... dilfs

    i apologize if my text caused any misunderstanding but that is not the idea i was going for. to explain in a broader perspective i would like to explain by saying while fiction and reality are different, fiction shapes real life preferences. by this i don't mean regular horror entertainment or abusive topics for the sake of spreading awareness but misogynistic and abusive things people pass as 'normal" or 'romantic', including p*rn. consuming problematic media doesn’t directly cause harmful behavior, but it undeniably contributes to normalizing toxic attitudes, making them seem more acceptable. Increased awareness and critical consumption of media are crucial in mitigating these effects but it is not the case for everyone; research shows that implicit biases and social norms are influenced by media exposure, often without conscious awareness.
    While fiction is a form of escapism, repeated exposure shapes attitudes over time, for eg: A meta-analysis of 31 studies (Malamuth et al., 2000) found that exposure to misogynistic content in media correlates with higher acceptance of rape myths (e.g., "she was asking for it"). please understand my statement in light with these very real life issues and while you may be different (i wouldnt know) not everyone can consume media and not be influenced by wrong ideas. i was originally arguing with the og comments "make believe" assumption. not every "make believe" is justified, kindly understand.

    kaii February 15, 2025 10:43 am
    This is so not true. Rina

    please read my latest comment to understand the meaning i was going for

    kaii February 15, 2025 10:45 am
    Yeah like @Rina I would have to disagree. People write all kinds of different subjects that doesn't necessarily mean that is their true nature. Most times people may write about things they know of, want to bri... Mistress_RA

    i have included the so called statistics youd asked for in my later reply to another comment, while you couldnt care less it includes the perspective i was going for in much more detail, ty.

    Rina February 15, 2025 12:26 pm
    please read my latest comment to understand the meaning i was going for kaii

    I still don't agree. Sorry for the long ass comment but...I checked out the study you mentioned but 1. the study was aimed at MEN and 2. it was primarily aimed at men who consume pornography featuring REAL women. Also the conclusion of the study was that the pornography consumption was not directly tied to the increase in sexual aggression after all. In the study it was mentioned that it didn't even have to be media depicting violent pornography or in some cases pornography AT ALL. So it kinda delved into how for the consumers who get influenced by media depicting sexual violence, the media serves as "fuel into the fire", it doesn't magically make them into aggressors nor does it make them think rape is ok. Also it is very much different from women consuming yaoi. It is not directly comparable because men in general consume porn for different reasons than women consume yaoi. There are variety of reasons why women consume yaoi while the explicit scenes can often be a secondary reason (check out some fan studies aimed at BL consumers), while men just watch porn to satisfy their sexual urges. Also a huge factor here is that yaoi does not feature any real men at all and that is one of the primary reasons women consume it, because the men there aren't real. Men usually consume porn because they just want to get off. Of course I am not denying that some of the yaoi readers are here just for the sex tho. However in the study you mentioned they referred to the direct connection between violent media and its connection to violence/sexual aggression aimed at real women. Now have you heard about a sexual aggression yaoi reader commited after reading toxic yaoi? Yeah, me neither. And if yes, it would be because the individual is predispositoned or highly suspectible to this kind of stuff in which case they shouldn't be consuming in the first place! This is the "videogames cause violence" argument all over again, which is false. Personally I read a lot of toxic romance. Have I ever thought anything that happens outside of the fictional space would ever be okay in real life? Absolutely not. It did not even alter my views on non-con behavior in my life, I would simply never find it remotely ok. But in fictional space it's just like smashing two dolls together, just play-pretend and a lot of people just see it as that nothing more - it is not the reflection of their character, they just can separate fiction and reality just fine. For a lot of people fiction provides spaces where people can explore things in safe environment. I would even say in some cases that those "make believe" scenarios are the better option when the other option is the real life scenario. Or would you rather see them go and try in real life? Also did you know that yaoi came to be because women wanted to escape from misogyny in the first place?