I dont actually think he was leading Hanjun on, because he stated that how could he lead Hanjun on like how he leads the girls on, when it was him who was chasing after Hanjun. And technically Yujae never really dated girls, or anyone for that matter because he was too focused on his studies to escape poverty.(was shown in a chapter in S2)
I also don’t think Yujae, currently, is curious about his sexuality- he just touched Hanjun and kissed Hanjun because that was the only way to get his full attention (which was shown also in another chapter in season 2, beach scene? Or festival scene)
Thus with that being said, I think the real reason why people hate Yujae is because the man does not acknowledge the feelings of Hanjun at all- He doesn’t want Hanjun to feel that way about him because what he does want is to remain as friends- like how they were throughout their childhood to before Hanjun confessed. Which in a way is a total valid reason to hate him, because it is Hanjun who is suffering the most because of the selfish decision of Yujae to continue remaining friends. If Yujae genuinely cared for and respected Hanjun then he would have rejected him the first time around instead of forcing Hanjun to rethink his feelings and basically disregard them just to continue being friends.
Don’t get me wrong, I neither hate nor love Yujae- because the reason why he’s acting like that is all because of his upbringing, his parents by far are the only characters I hate. But yes, i actually do wanna see Yujae suffer some more because im a sucker for angst(づ￣ ³￣)づ
I’m confused about the people who hate Yujae, I can’t really hate him tbh, I feel for the both of them. Man he is confused, he's straight and he keeps leading him on and on and that’s wrong, but can’t a straight guy be confused about all of this? I had a friend who went to the same thing so I understand him, it’s confusing to come to terms that you like ’men’ now after dating girls your whole life. It’s not an overnight process like, Oh wow, I gay should sex with him now, coming into terms about it will take time. Some others take years to fully accept the fact that yes I’m gay. They’re both frustrating. I’m not looking forward to their sex scenes or anything like that. I just want to see how they will sort their feelings out. I wanted to see how they will come into terms with it. And I want Hanjun to be happy, and Yujae to finally come into terms into his own feelings.