Yeah I agree...
Tbh both are problematic... even more so because we are left thinking it was drunk grape and not drunken sex (the key is the consent) for a good part of it... and bottoms behavior doesn't really help. He seems unwilling and being forced like 90% of the time! Yeah... ML is overly jealous and protective... I'm not gonna deny it... but MC really doesn't help... ML have no problem bringing him to his social circle, family and even work... but MC hides his relationship with him from everyone he can. He wasn't even willing to tell former college classmates even after years married and 2 kids! Like, you can count on one hand the number of people from his side that knows... So I can also understand ML being like that...
So yeah... both are wrong... but tbh I really hate the bottom's kind. The ones that seem to be being graped everytime because they are "too shy" and that makes it seem like he is unwilling... that coupled with we only learning he was actually in love and interested on ML through flashbacks in the midst of the story... makes him look like the unwilling canary on a golden cage kind of bottom... like.. graped, forced to marry and locked up home life that I don't wish upon even enemies...
Also... yeah... sunbae is creepy... I get bodyguards given how wealthy they are... but more than that was weird... and he seems even worse because the comic gives us the idea that it's one sided and he forces his love on the bottom... honestly I got so mas after the flashbacks cuz till them I legit believed bottom was with him only because of the pregnancy and half willing at most...
Anyway both aren't really good and the plot wouldn't work if top wasn't 200% handsome and filthy rich! And that's not a good thing... but even so... I also read everything...
Lol, i totally agree with you, both of them have problems but i read this twice because i couldn't remember the plot and because there aren't a lot of manga/hua/hwa that shows us male pregnancy ,bump, domestic life etc
I like this story, well, at least i used to like this story before my frontal lobe developed, but now i see a lot of things that shouldn't be normalized ,like sleeping with someone drunk, even though they gave their consent. The sunbae is creepy ,like be for real Hosik can't even talk to his friends because Mister jealous can't accept the fact that Hosik has a personal life. It's just a lot. It's a pretty good story i guess but not for someone with a pretty high intellect. After i said all this, I'm not intelligent either and i still like this story to some extent but some things are still not ok.