You are not crazy. It's one thing to make you a character reference and it's a whole another thing when you are used for inheritance. DH never demanded anything for JH. And it's not like DH was able to pretend he is normal. As much as JH is rightfully upset, if he wanted to save the relationship, I would think he would try to understand what's the deal with DH, and then decide whether to call it off or not.
y'all are true but, for the first comment u see things through your own eyes and story. people been using JH and keeping on wanting controlling his life, and he put his trust in DH. But tbh yes JH was kinda fast on his feelings cuz he saw someone trying to genuinely get to know him, like behind his mask. He feels betrayed. But I don't like the fact that he said to DH that he's gonna be alone AGAIN, it was mean and he was kinda getting physical too
Exactly what I was thinking...I mean this type of thing isn't EXACTLY out of left field for DH. I mean there have been plenty of times where JH got the chance to see that DH doesn't exactly work on the same wavelength as others and actually handles a lot of situations- especially social ones- differently than others. Not to say JH commodating DH is the MUST here but with how quick he was to jump to burning bridges and shutting down the conversation instead of taking a step back and working on the issue goes to show how little he really wanted to reach a solution in the first place. (Which is also pretty on base, since i feel like JH has been shown to be a bit of an emotional person before and has been hasty in his decision-making.)
Obviously there's miscommunication between the two, and if JH just dug a bit more, it wouldn't be all that hard to figure out DH has an stemming trust issue with relationships that would point him to the direction of "lets just not tell our signifigant other, it would be better that way." But idk imo they both should've recognized the other is coming into this with baggage and have been ready to work through it.
I mean we all know JH's issue and problem. We know where his anger is coming from. But in another perspective, he has first hand experience with people who use him so he can actually compare. Is DH really the same as his family? Just some thoughts to ponder before breaking everything off, yk.
Next chapter, I think DH tried. But JH closed him off. Stopped thinking and just dumped DH in the bucket like his aunt. DH, not knowing what to do just accepted it. Even in the last chapter, ughh, DH just didn't know what to do. Imo, he was the one at the losing end because he can't adapt, unlike JH.
Okay but you need to keep in mind here, MC is genuinely someone with a mental disorder, like he's not neurotypical. When dealing with people that's not neurotypical, you can't impose neurotypical on them? Ygwim??? Plus cutting someone off without letting them fully explain themselves in a less emotionally urgent way (calmly basically) is one of the shittiest thing you can do to someone who's genuinely been there for you before (as mc was to ml)
i totally agree with you, I just wanted to had that JH is human too and have feelings (u didn't say that he is not one but yk what i mean)
While we can all non medically diagnose him with autism or whatever i genuinely think these are like sociopathic tendencies, because it's not that he can't do social cues, it's more so he just can't comprehend human emotions, even his own. Yea sure what he did to ml was kinda shitty, tryna get infos out of someone, but stay with me here. Is that not how most human relationships were built??? The difference here is that bro recorded all that in a literal file. Compared to the usual of just putting stuff in your brain. Idk bout you but if someone ik for being kinda weirdo-ish with normal human interactions who approaches me and then i proceeded to love in our other interactions, I genuinely wouldn't be surprised to know if they logged that as a genuine file. Simply bc maybe bro's a lil goofy with the way he goes abt life. It's not that the information was some sus ass shit that would cause a raise of suspicion of his intentions, it's literally just information abt me??? Maybe I'm crazy here. But truly, compared to what mc had helpedml with (his internal turmoil, his family situation), ml had helped mc go through nothing. Maybe understanding "love" as an emotion a lil but really that's all. Most of mc's problems, he solved himself. Idk man tbh mc should and definitely could find some one better, sorry i don't feel that much empathy to ml