From a pov of someone who like me that doesn't like huge gathering like that n has someone that's constantly hostile towards me yes, but for someone like her who constantly needs to go social gatherings in her life for works n studies no. For her that's a normal thing to do, she doesn't understand n have a clue why he's constantly doesn't want to go there. It's not like she's a bitch, more like staying ignorant to the situations people even someone close to her. She doesn't think his situations is as bad as her. You know what, yeah she's a bitch kinda. I can't stand people like her irl
no shes a bitch. she knew he didnt like those types of gatherings, knew that his bully would be riled up and looking to target him if he went. she forced him to accept favors like hmwk and class recs so that she could demand things of him in return. thats manipulation. and she liked to hear gossip about him so she could feel superior about it... theres a lot of red flags there and none of them have to do with her being an extrovert. you can be an extrovert and not guilt your partner into crossing boundaries or being in unsafe spaces. this is one of those situations where the age and power dynamic created a toxic environment, and she was the one who orchestrated it. hence, she's a bitch
Yeah that's why I have the realisation at the end. She's pmo so much, guilt trip him into doing something he doesn't like
She CLEARLY wasn't doing stuff to "guilt trip" him but because she actually wanted to help him that's what the entire breakup convo was abt, how he dismissed her feelings and stuff. Yeah she shouldn't have forced him, but the only reason she did was because she was extremely uncomfortable and felt unsafe around the same guy as well! How are y'all not acknowledging that
i respect and appreciate her discomfort. but why would she bring her underclassman whimpy ass introverted and mysteriously reserved boyfriend whom she knows and loves for exactly that reason to be the emotional buffer there? but ill try to put myself in her shoes...
ok i thought about it for a minute. i think from her perspective i get why she would bring her boyfriend to the event - she didnt mean for him to back her up fr fr like on a confrontation but the logic being "this guy is a pain in the ass and always picks a fight bc jihwoo (omg wait is that even his name? lol) is never there, lemme bring him so he wont have anything to say about it", and maybe as emotional support as an anchor in the space so all the energy isn't directed at her like it usually is when shes there. but i still think it was thoughtless bc duhh of course the bully was gonna say something about it. and i also still think the way she went about it was manipulative, but it may not have been malicious, just like the way folx can become subconsciously manipulative to get people to do things as like a survival tactic that bleeds into ur day to day. you've convinced me to have some empathy for her but i still think she wasnt ever truly considerate of him in their relationship and because he was so starved for attention and affection he loved it even tho it was bothering him underneath the whole time, only for it to all burst out right then after he was triggered by his bully after she pushed him to attend. anyways thanks for chatting, we'll tune in next time to see how all goes down
Yeah np! I was j annoyed at everyone hating on her when I felt she wasn't the only one at fault. I think I still disagree that she was never considerate him, I felt that part was cuz he never communicated his actual feelings to her but overall I get ur perspective
She's a bitch