THE LACK OF MEDIA LITERACY IS SCARY

levipleasecallmeback February 9, 2025 10:48 am

kids on tiktok are claiming mincheol had more chemistry than taeha. and are saying their build up was better compared to this current relationship which is based on lust… you have to be fucking dumb to reduce their connection to that, and the agreements ive seen too? saying they’re not romantic or not deep enough, to have sex yet, are so inexperienced and young i couldn’t believe it

mc was mistreated, unloved, and discouraged by the ex for years! she felt disconnected from her entire body and self, not even caring about anything other than him because of the constant emotional/physical abuse and belittling. he killed her sex drive, and made her feel unworthy of indulging in simple interests outside a husband and devoted slave-wife! however, as she’s moving on and healing from the trash she starts trying “childish” things, like the cigs or small impulsive spending to get to know who she really is. with this comes the ml, whos been taking care of her behind the scenes and his attempt of courting her. he’s shown deep devotion and respect, with hopes he can be a part of her life because he wants to make her happy directly. her decision to have sex with ml was a fully sound and reasonable choice?? it didn’t come out of nowhere, she FINALLY felt safe and vulnerable after all these years! it’s part of her adult journey of healing, and moving on from an awful as well as traumatizing first heartbreak

idk why young readers these days are so scared of intimacy in media when it serves a purpose! can woman in media be eager about sex without the misogyny. it’s not a moral failing to have desire, so this purity mindset is ridiculous and sad especially with how the story itself is a smut focused one too

Responses
    mooche February 9, 2025 5:39 pm

    the kids are what??!?!?? maybe it's just me but the moment someone is shown as abusive, their likeability never raises, and this guy??? i hope he drowns

    levipleasecallmeback February 9, 2025 8:32 pm
    the kids are what??!?!?? maybe it's just me but the moment someone is shown as abusive, their likeability never raises, and this guy??? i hope he drowns mooche

    it’s so strange, and he should die horribly i agree

    mincheol doesn’t deserve any merit for being kind in the past, that’s normal behavior ?? their early relationship is SUPPOSED to represent why it’s hard to leave first loves and also just abusive relationships in the first place. not be used as a way to downplay this current bond! it’s the easiest plot to follow but they’re treating her comfortability with sex as a crime. i think these types of readers have never experienced their first heartbreak

    mooche February 9, 2025 10:56 pm
    it’s so strange, and he should die horribly i agreemincheol doesn’t deserve any merit for being kind in the past, that’s normal behavior ?? their early relationship is SUPPOSED to represent why it’s har... levipleasecallmeback

    literally, that flashback wasn't to show how good things can be again, it was to show how things would never be the same!! if you told these readers the curtains were blue they'd take it at face value smh

    levipleasecallmeback February 9, 2025 11:21 pm
    literally, that flashback wasn't to show how good things can be again, it was to show how things would never be the same!! if you told these readers the curtains were blue they'd take it at face value smh mooche

    EXACTLY we weren’t supposed to romanticize that era, it’s only there to make us understand their dynamic and characters better :/

    the blue curtains mention… don’t even get me started on it because it’s so true that it’s painful . the age of illiteracy is here full force and it’s horrifying!!

    LazBinx February 12, 2025 4:14 am

    There’s video montages dedicated to that red headed demon. Like it doesn’t matter that he cheated and emotionally abused her—why are they creating romantic vids of him?!

    levipleasecallmeback February 12, 2025 4:51 am
    There’s video montages dedicated to that red headed demon. Like it doesn’t matter that he cheated and emotionally abused her—why are they creating romantic vids of him?! LazBinx

    gross while it’s attention seeking, idc if people find bad characters hot it doesn’t bother me. there’s so many characters to thirst over yet they choose the worst ones because it makes them get engagement LOL

    what does bother me is seeing people say past red head is better than our current ml when that’s simply not true. his only advantage was being kind earlier in her life?? meanwhile tae was kind the entire time

    mooche February 12, 2025 5:19 am

    do we need him to slap the fuck out of her to make them understand???

    FUCKMAKINGACCOUNTS February 12, 2025 8:58 am

    Let's toss these idiots into abusive relationships while in debt and working 8 jobs. See how they like it

    levipleasecallmeback February 14, 2025 11:56 pm
    do we need him to slap the fuck out of her to make them understand??? mooche

    apparently being a nice guy 10 years ago means he was the better option

    levipleasecallmeback February 14, 2025 11:59 pm
    Let's toss these idiots into abusive relationships while in debt and working 8 jobs. See how they like it FUCKMAKINGACCOUNTS

    i can’t imagine seeing all the backstory and the cut to her current life, then thinking he’s somehow better than taeha?? the ex saved her from bullies… meanwhile taeha saved her from an abusive leech husband and debt LMAO!