Y’all I’m sorry but this seems like all lust and mommy issues for me ┗( T﹏T )┛ ...

EXCUSE ME? ARE YOU INTO STOCKHOLM SYNDROME? Masochist? Have you ever went into relationship before? This doesn't sound healthy at all

Calma que a gente não sabe a história por trás do novinho. Ele tem um motivo para gostar dela que ainda não foi revelado. E o marido antigo dela só era bom pra ela na época da escola. Quando a vida adulta começou de verdade ele se tornou um bosta. As pessoas mudam.

They didn't fuck right away it ain't lust he literally never made a physical move unless she gave permission and as they have already kissed author has already portrait the regrets she felt after tat despite being attracted to him..so this time they took it further but with fl not feeling any regret rather enjoying it.this sex was important so that her image of him being a kid could change and she starts seeing him in a different light as a kiss couldn't do it cuz she felt as if she forced him into it now she atleast can not say she forced a sex on him cuz he already wanted her that way she knew it but was hesitant cuz she think zhe is using a young child who could've pulled a young girl (mf can pull a chick of any age tho) so this mature interaction was necessary to change her view a little

people change, relationships end, spouses get divorced. i don't get people who are hung up on mincheol.

i could never take a cheater back.

I think I somehow understand your point, though I don't want the ex back, it's just like the ml and fl doesn't have that much lovestruck in my eyes.

istg you all didn't read my comment. I said i would rather OLD mincheol not the new sh*tty cheater one

eh... to me it just looked like normal teenage puppy love, which is why it flamed out like it did, no real substance just trauma bonding and physical attraction

old mincheol and new mincheol are the same person, old mincheol became cheater mincheol - he was always a bad person it just took some time for our mc to see it

thank god she didn't have his child

Thanks for saying this. Because people are straight up dismissing the fact that they trauma bonded and unfortunately the trauma never ended. The trauma in question being absolute poverty.

Trauma bonded, let me ask you, are you white woman? Why do u guys like putting nicknames or terminology over little fucking thing, it's the same as those tiktok with "cheese theory" Or anything it involves over something fucking small and stupid. What the hell is trauma bonding and why is it corny as hell.

Never gonna happen! Shit, you're not growing if u stay stagnant and think life is a fairy tale. Face it, some people are horrible even the person u least expect to

I'm not white. Trauma bonding is a terminology that has been there for so many years. It ain't anyone's fault that you have such limited vocabulary to comprehend what is happening in the series. By your comment I can tell your critical thinking skills are in the gutter cz what do white women have to do with any of this?

im still not talking about the new one,before he changed to a different person,before what poverty did to them. i can’t believe i need to explain this like i’m talking with a 5 year old

that's because you make about as much sense as a five year old.

mincheol is and was not a good person, poverty doesn't turn you into a cheater, messed morals and lack of empathy are what lead to a betrayal like be cheated on in your own house by your broke husband.

Hae-soo went through the same things and somehow she didn't cheat on mincheol

i’m saying what i saw/read. he was literally a good person who had a good relationship with his girlfriend. maybe you’re reading on it too much with your psychology notes(respectfully)

i'll keep it simple for you since you seem to be young and never been in a serious relationship yet nor have much experience dating:

mincheol - bad person
hae-soo - good person

poverty did not change mincheol it just exposed who he really was from the beginning - you are caught up on lust and trauma bonding from their teenage years

it’s bold of you to assume that lol. without knowing the further of the story everyone would say he is a good person and a perfect male lead ama believe it or not,not having money can change people lots.people can change in a good way or a bad way and the roots of their problem in their relationship was always the money. maybe you analyze it too much since you maybe had a similar experience but that’s what it is