it always throws me off when characters are written to be caring and loving and generally treat their love interest tenderly and then turn around and be completely inconsiderate of the person bottoming during sex. at some point, dude cried that he wasn’t ready and felt like his insides were tearing but the other guy kept going??? it’s both rapey and unharmonious in it’s storytelling. I’d understand if the intention was to show that there are 2 different sides to the guy but i didn’t get that impression here.
it always throws me off when characters are written to be caring and loving and generally treat their love interest tenderly and then turn around and be completely inconsiderate of the person bottoming during sex. at some point, dude cried that he wasn’t ready and felt like his insides were tearing but the other guy kept going??? it’s both rapey and unharmonious in it’s storytelling. I’d understand if the intention was to show that there are 2 different sides to the guy but i didn’t get that impression here.