Genuine question

Delaoh February 7, 2025 11:41 am

How do u know ur str8 if u never fcked people of ur same gender? Do you actually just imagine it and see how you feel? Does that mean i'm bi then? Cause i do feel aroused when reading smut yuri hmm

Responses
    Fujoshi for Fluff only✿ February 7, 2025 11:48 am

    I don't think this is a valid judgement. Because when you're reading a story you can get aroused, it's fine. But you've nomidea about what exactly is the part what made you aroused. So don't take it as a parameter in your real-life identity. It's just a story based on 2D characters. But if it's actual people then you can say so.

    Jaxx February 7, 2025 11:53 am

    Straight people do not feel any attraction to any other gender, except for the opposite that's how they know , they are straight.

    Wise a bi person may find attraction to both genders.

    If u can't feel sexually attracted to that gender I don't think u can sleep with that person or gender.

    Eva February 7, 2025 12:05 pm

    I mean I'm asexual and I kind of feel 'something' when I read smut, not really arousal but idk, I like to imagine what the characters feel and I like reading it. However I NEVER had fantasies or dreams of that kind about any irl person, be it a celebrity or somebody I know, so I know for sure that me sometimes liking smut doesn't mean anything. I'm not saying you're also ace, but this might be the answer, whether you ever felt anything for an ACTUAL person of that gender or in general

    Bluuurpyyy February 7, 2025 12:18 pm
    I don't think this is a valid judgement. Because when you're reading a story you can get aroused, it's fine. But you've nomidea about what exactly is the part what made you aroused. So don't take it as a parame... Fujoshi for Fluff only✿

    Fr fr, you can't take the subject of arousal, doesn't matter what forms, images/videos/writings/any visuals as an indicator of your sexuality. Those things are fantasies that could even defy the logic laws yk

    Shy_Alien February 7, 2025 1:16 pm

    You don't need to fuck someone to realise that

    LGtfo February 7, 2025 1:38 pm
    You don't need to fuck someone to realise that Shy_Alien

    ^^this
    You just innately know. I’ve never been attracted to a girl my whole life

    miaumiau February 7, 2025 7:51 pm

    in my opinion, smut doesnt necessarily show who youre attracted to cuz at the end of the day its porn and its normal to get aroused by it, ppl all the time talk about how theyve been turned on by crazy stuff even though it realistically is not sexy to them.
    Me personally ive never been with anyone but ik i like girls bc of countless times ive been attracted or drawn to them in different ways, and straight girls have a different experience entirely from mine lol

    miaumiau February 7, 2025 7:58 pm
    in my opinion, smut doesnt necessarily show who youre attracted to cuz at the end of the day its porn and its normal to get aroused by it, ppl all the time talk about how theyve been turned on by crazy stuff ev... miaumiau

    Something that helped me personally ,is that we arent "taught" to be attracted to the same sex, so if you find yourself gravitating towards girls or thinking about them often (in ways tht arent purely platonic) u might be gay, its been like that since i was young so it clicked for me