doesnt answer the question, but similar enough-
when people wrongly pronounce yaoi as "ya-oh-ee"
Ikr i hate how that term is used in the yaoi community cuz whenever i click on power bottom lists 90% of them just turn out to be buff dudes. yall just think anything thats not a twink is a power bottom smh. and those dudes arent even dominant in bed bro its the same yaoi bullshit where they say "no stop" while the top is forcing them (so literally every time they have sex its basically sa). i've been deprived of good power bottom content for years im tired of it man
Srry to tell this but that's the correct japanese pronunciation
i meant instead of, not as
wait I tought power bottom were who generates the most amount of energy in a relationship! (silly jts always sunny in Philadelphia reference)
its pisses me off when they use "twink" wrongly, once I saw someone calling a buff guy a fckn twink like ????
or when they use twink and is a teenagerr, while im in there it pisses me off even more when they call "age gap" to an adult and student relationship, in my country the age of consent is 14, but idk if an adult is dating a student (except college) I want jail on them. to me is not age gap but straight crime
Not a term, but a genre. BDSM content. I'm not too familiar with it myself but I know bdsm has set rules. A lot of these so called "bdsm" content is just sexual assault. No safe word whatsoever!! People forget that bdsm is all about RULES. You dont just grab a random person you like and do whateve to them. But then you'll see these authors writing the dom literally torturing the "sub" who is portrayed to "enjoy" it but they never even established any play or nothing. I often see fans gushing over these types of bdsm stories thinking that's peak bdsm but babes, you're reading nonconsensual torture porn at best.
You get it XD
Bdsm has consent but most bdsm bl don't even establish that consent (￣∇￣")
OMG YESSS, Im very into bdsm in general and found out abt it when I was way too young lol at the time I thought it was so great bc you could have all this things and it was previously established to be okay and if it wasn't you could say this word and we would stop w no hard feelings + aftercare
Since then ive read every bdsm story here and in other sites to find out that people don't even know what it is and think torture = bdsm, like I can count on one hand all the fully consensual bdsm stories I've read in over 5 years
What is a term that existed for a while and BL/GL/SL readers started using it wrong that drives you I N S A N E ?
Mine is "power bottom", is used in the MLM community to refer to a bottom who is dominant in the bedroom and breaks away from the heteronormative perspective of gay sex
What do readers (who clearly aren't gay men nor queer) use it for? To refer to badass bottoms, I literally just saw this video of this girl explaining the terms and giving popular manhwa examples and mfs in the comments were saying like "why isn't Chawon (BJ Alex) or Euihyun (waterside night) or Leewon (roses & champagne) here? They're clearly power bottoms" like babe them throwing hands at their partners doesn't make them dominant in the bedroom