Is It True that the Dad is bad.

Uniqual February 6, 2025 1:52 pm

Online all I see that the Father only treats the FL good and doesn’t care for the other child. Is there any punce of neglect going on cause I dont play dat over here.

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    NightOwl26 February 11, 2025 4:49 pm

    I wouldn't say there's neglect. I for sure would not say that the father only cares for the GL. He also cares very much about his son too. It's true that the father pays more attention to the FL, but

    NightOwl26 February 11, 2025 4:51 pm
    I wouldn't say there's neglect. I for sure would not say that the father only cares for the GL. He also cares very much about his son too. It's true that the father pays more attention to the FL, but NightOwl26

    Oops didn't finish. It's true that the father pays more attention to the FL, but what other people have forgotten to mention is that the son does the exact same thing. The son cares more about the FL than his own father. The son willingly gave up his "heir to the throne" status to the FL because 1. He actually hated it and 2. He wants to be her knight instead. The father agreed to it because that's what his son wanted and wanted him to choose what made him happiest

    NightOwl26 February 11, 2025 4:53 pm
    Oops didn't finish. It's true that the father pays more attention to the FL, but what other people have forgotten to mention is that the son does the exact same thing. The son cares more about the FL than his o... NightOwl26

    People could say that the father seeming to "favor" the FL more is neglect but in my eyes, what i see is what the son would actually want. I know its weird lol. But after reading this much, I strongly believe the son would say to his father "why are you looking at me? You should be keeping your eye on FL" because they're son and the father are practically one and the same

    Wowza February 11, 2025 9:34 pm

    There isn't any neglect, just favoritism which is bad on the dad's part but the son doesn't care because he also favors his sister too, some people do blow it out of proportion but he isn't really a bad dad but he could be better

    Panda February 11, 2025 11:14 pm

    Nothing of sort. The father is taking care of them as best as he could, not by terms of "equality". Favoritism is only half correct. Why? Since first, Mabel is a child born from him and his greatest love(Sianna) and obviously will make Mabel more precious than Oscar. And secondly, he respects any boundaries or promises set by the mothers of his children (thought not explicitly implicated). With this reasoning, if he shows overtly care to Oscar similar to what he's been doing with Mabel, Oscar might harbor complicated feelings towards it since it's conflicting with how his mother had him onset.
    With that, all I can say is that he's a good father. He's taking good care of them appropriate of the circumstances the children have.