
imo, ilay is too rational and calculating to be a "full blown psycho".
i believe that he uses aggression and violence as a tool to assert control over others rather than acting out of pure emotional instability. he's only really has those outbursts when he wants something. for example, when he lashes out at taeui when after taeui resists him. he has self-control and can be quite calm and collected in other situations. so rather than a full blown psycho, i would say that he is a calculated manipulator/abuser who just happens to have aspd. (btw, most of these points are not my own, i got it from the book 'why does he do that' by lundy, it's a great book that i highly recommend)
Is ilay on the spectrum?