define the relationship
You're looking for a power imbalance between the two characters, but the one who is in the higher position is infatuated with the person who is in the lower position. Or at least, that's what I got from your question. I think these might fit what you're looking for. (But correct me if I'm wrong. I have reccs for almost anything.)
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/a_proxy_painter/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/barbarities/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/the_foul/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/cry_me_a_river/
(All of these are BLs btw)
Looking for recommendations! I love the trope where a person in a high position or someone who has great responsibilities submit themselves to their partners when it comes to the relationship or sex specifically. So when the other person is there safe place where they can let their walls down.
I don't care about genders and genres just give me anything with this kind of dynamic