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I don’t know why you can’t speak to your parents but if you put whoever you’re speaking to above or below you, it will never be easy but when you consider others equal to you but they just have different privileges it makes life different, on the throne in your mind no one else should be sitting here except you and if they have a seat next to you it’s great if they don’t then maybe it says what you might feel about them so navigate depending on who is qualified to sit at your table! And what qualities you want them to have ? how do you want respect ? Knowing yourself makes conversation easier because you don’t doubt what you already know but this person doesn’t know me, i don’t know them so discovering is the only way I can find out and if we don’t match it’s oki!
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Also ik it's difficult to guess who's the gay girl especially in countries where being openly gay/ lesbian might ruin your life so maybe up your game and try androgynous style or dress masculine some days and feminine some days so that the lesbians/bi/pan girls start noticing you and test out for spaces which might be queer friendly. Important tip- don't date one of your bestfriends unless you're very very sure that you're never gonna breakup.
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Confessing is not bad, it actually makes you feel relieved of all the weight you've been carrying inside your chest but you have to think of all the pros and cons since it's gonna change your dynamic whether she likes you back or not. So just be careful in case this person is your only bestfriend in the whole world. Sometimes it's better to stay friends and sometimes it's better to be together but you cannot know which one applies in your case unless you try it. All the best!
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