Right!!! I honestly feel so bad for the uke and I really wish we got more of his thoughts and pov on his relationship w the seme, also I don’t get why everyone thinks he’s the MC when we barely get that. But yeah I feel like atp he’s just trauma bonded to him
^^^ this
I hate it when people call abuse and unconsensual hitting as "BDSM"
Bdsm is all about consent, a bdsm play cannot be done without providing both parties with the tools to stop (like a safe word) and without the enthusiastic consent of both links.
This is NOT bdsm, this is just an ill tempered dude abusing a (probably) mentally challenged guy
Like hes not doing any of this to make the mc "aroused" hes just doing it to harm him (like when he raped him in the bathroom) BDSM is not done to harm anyone
Bdsm play is supposed to be 100% fun for both parties (as in both partners are being hit/hitting bcuz they like it and want their partner to be happy)
Btw preach you cooked
Contains SPOILERS and talking about ppl who are mad at the bottom or those in defense that it’s perfectly consensual:
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Ngl I’m surprised the top hasn’t murdered anyone yet with his violent habit and short temper. He fr looked like he was about to strangle the bottom, to death. It actually looked like he was about to, but the bottom’s reaction made him pause. The bottom got an erection, which could be because he got turned on like what others said. But I’ve also heard some cases where guys can get erect out of fear. It’s possible and can also happen due to stress/anxiety.
I know there’s people in defense saying that the bottom likes being hit, but I believe they’re wrong. It’s not the same as bdsm. So far there hasn’t been any instance where we actually got the bottom’s thoughts that show he enjoys being in pain. Majority of the time the bottom gets hit, he’s scared, crying, apologizing, and asking him to stop. What he really enjoys is the sex, not the pain. There’s a difference. Until the bottom clearly shows in his mind or says that he likes the pain, it’s not showing that he likes it regardless of his body reaction. By that kind of logic, a woman can still get wet due stimulation, but not enjoy what’s being done to her. The same can be said that a guy can get hard due to stimulation but not enjoy what’s actually being done to him. A body reaction doesn’t always reflect good feelings.
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Don’t get me wrong here, I’m not hating on the story. I just want the situation to be clear to know what readers may be reading/understanding. I read things like red mansion, and that’s a similar case but the bottom there shows he genuinely enjoys it.