Damn everyone is absolutely dogging on you which is crazy when Garam has arguably been a bad boyfriend for a majority of their relationship, a fact that’s backed up by Garam himself lol. Honestly I understand not liking their relationship because Garam frustrated me to no end once they got together but now I love them, him not being trusting and open in the relationship is a character trait given to him due to past trauma just like J being open and lovey-dovey is a character trait given to him due to his own past.
It’s something you as a viewer either have to choose to get over or not because that’s literally just their characters and their relationship dynamic (for now at least), you’re always entitled to your opinion tho and clearly everyone else is also entitled to (and very serious lol) about their own opinions as well.
Maybe unpopular opinion but I don't fw their relationship. Only happy for J cause that's what he wanted but I'm not so sure garam deserves him... saying you like your boyfriend is not something amazing. That should happen before the relationship even take place...