https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/checkmate_1/
It's been awhile since I've last read it but between MC and ML there wasnt any SA i think, but there's a heavy issues around it on ML's side.... Anymore than this would be a spoiler
Tyyyyy
A whole list?? U spoil me rotten
You're welcome!!! I don't like rape and sa too so I mostly try to find stuff without it! The list has some BLs with rape/sa in it but it's only a small percentage thanfully yet disappointingly
BLs where the MC is lowk obsessed with the ML?? It doesn't have to be the toxic kind of obsessed, it can be, but it doesn't HAVE to be.
Something like this maybe:
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/oreshika_shiranai_karada/
(Reminder it can be toxic, just no SA/rape pls and thanks )