Bro, she is really pissing me off. As a married woman, it’s important to set boundaries....

Rhaenys___ January 27, 2025 4:38 am

Bro, she is really pissing me off. As a married woman, it’s important to set boundaries. Why is she allowing him to invade her personal space?

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    Trodrigo January 27, 2025 11:04 am

    1. Bc this is an arranged marriage. 2. Nobles are often known to have multiple partners and its not thought of as strange. If even in Tarkan's culture then for sure not hers. Where she came from that culture is normal. 3. If she were uncomfortable she would've stated as such or pushed him away. 4. She and Tarkan are not close romantically and they have now drifted apart as friends even due to the situation with Diana. 5. It's not like Tarkan has professed his feelings to her to make her aware of her own. 6. She's not aware of her own and she has a very neutral feeling towards men in the first place so she feels there's no issue. 7. Tarkan has not discussed those boundaries with her. 8. They are not on the same page right now. 9. Let's not act like Tarkan didn't lie about having a lover despite getting married and letting Diana be all up in his personal space. As far as our girlie was concerned, they seemed intimate even though that was def not what Tarkan was putting out. Anyone who knows Tarkan knows his personality and knows Diana being that close meant nothing to him. As far as he was concerned, she was like a pet dog he had to kind of watch after. And 10. She's very much the type that wouldn't see him invading her space as an issue since she has no romantic feelings or involvement with him and she thinks he feels neutral towards her too. 11. Let's not forget this girl had no friends. No allies. No one who even respected her. So her idea of relationships, boundaries, and whatever else is very skewed.

    EsTeR January 27, 2025 1:39 pm
    1. Bc this is an arranged marriage. 2. Nobles are often known to have multiple partners and its not thought of as strange. If even in Tarkan's culture then for sure not hers. Where she came from that culture is... Trodrigo

    Damn what U said actually makes sense bro, rlly hope they'll give my girl some friends TwT

    Rhaenys___ January 27, 2025 3:02 pm
    1. Bc this is an arranged marriage. 2. Nobles are often known to have multiple partners and its not thought of as strange. If even in Tarkan's culture then for sure not hers. Where she came from that culture is... Trodrigo

    While you make a valid point, I believe she knows that it is not appropriate for her to let him get too close. It is common sense, and given how intelligent she is, she understands just how inappropriate it actually is.

    Eukid08 January 27, 2025 4:45 pm
    While you make a valid point, I believe she knows that it is not appropriate for her to let him get too close. It is common sense, and given how intelligent she is, she understands just how inappropriate it act... Rhaenys___

    This is not as much of a common sense as u think btw. Many cultures still think this way ( im not saying they are right) and she doesn't have any common sense, if u haven't noticed already. From feeding the king jelly as an adult to thinking someone can't hear u from other side of the table as long as she talks quietly. She just roll with the amount of information she is given. She doesn't have enough life experiences to have a common sense.

    Kuzu January 27, 2025 5:09 pm
    While you make a valid point, I believe she knows that it is not appropriate for her to let him get too close. It is common sense, and given how intelligent she is, she understands just how inappropriate it act... Rhaenys___

    She didn't experience life enough to attain this level of common sense tho she's been locked up since she was a child, so her level of common sense is like a children level. Aka, everyone is a friend unless they're bad.

    Rhaenys___ January 27, 2025 7:17 pm
    She didn't experience life enough to attain this level of common sense tho she's been locked up since she was a child, so her level of common sense is like a children level. Aka, everyone is a friend unless th... Kuzu

    You make her sound like she's something of an idiot.
    She does not lack common sense she knows better. I'm sure she's well aware it's inappropriate but probably believes it's not a big deal since she and her husband didn't marry for love

    Eukid08 January 28, 2025 1:13 am
    You make her sound like she's something of an idiot. She does not lack common sense she knows better. I'm sure she's well aware it's inappropriate but probably believes it's not a big deal since she and her hus... Rhaenys___

    ...what kind of beef do u have with aristine lol. And she DOES lack common sense. Being intelligent and having common sense are 2 different things. Sure, it might also be the second part u said but common sense is something u have to GAIN through life. And it differs based on ur life environment. For someone who's locked in a tower since they r a kid, it's harder to stay sane and " Get common sense" Lol. She may not be an idiot but she is an air head. There's a difference.

    Rhaenys___ January 28, 2025 6:49 pm
    ...what kind of beef do u have with aristine lol. And she DOES lack common sense. Being intelligent and having common sense are 2 different things. Sure, it might also be the second part u said but common sense... Eukid08

    Wtf are you talking about? You all act like she’s some sort of naive person who doesn’t know any better just because she’s been locked up in a tower. It seems like you all are implying she’s not very smart, but she’s actually quite intelligent. While she may come across as a bit of an airhead, I seriously doubt she doesn’t understand that her behavior is inappropriate.