So despite knowing how hes been treated by the scum, hes still itching down there? What a ...

Oh okay so the misogyny is leaking out here everything literally isn’t his fault and he’s going through emotional turmoil with both his brother and the guy that he likes he’s seeking comfort and affection in a way that’s completely normal in fact when you have sex with the person you lost your virginity too it’s a physical reaction that happens in your brain that releases more chemicals such as dopamine and oxytocin which tends to make people more attached to their first time or the person they had it with not to mention ofc he’s going to have abandonment/attachment issues he’s a child of divorce and in that divorce his father never cared for him and took his twin brother away twins have been studied we know that it’s a huge toll to separate them it literally leads to severe trauma and mental illness not to even mention the struggles of sexual identity he’s going through so much mentally and here you are judging completely natural human reactions that have science behind it bc it doesn’t fit a narrative you like

Hi I'm not reading that long ass paragraph and I don't agree with the op either but I'm so confused why is did you call op a misogynist?? They are hating on the uke, who is a man............being the bottom doesn't make you a....woman......

You don't get it. It's actually a power move and uke has the upper hand. He's treating the seme like some sex toy while being completely aware that seme has feelings for him. Seme just lost his chances on having any deeper, genuine relationship with uke.

See it’s ignorant to insert yourself in a conversation without reading it’s entirety and that’s where you’re wrong statistics show that most men view the person who is taking/receiving no matter the gender are inferior towards them most of the time it’s a women yes but males feel dominance/power from giving it’s the hole is just a hole argument most men view anything they perceive lesser or weaker than themselves in a feminine manner despite age or gender we see it a lot through the treatment/bullying of gay men, especially bottoms, and the derogatory words used towards them are usually effeminate and its the misogynistic ideals that are engraved in society, created by men are uphold it by thought processes like this men face the effects of misogyny all the time i.e when people believe men can’t be raped especially by a woman and women can have internalized misogyny as well go take a human sexuality or humanities or even a basic psychological class and educate yourself on topics before you insert yourself and opinions in a conversation

All this in a mangago comment section which exists so we can read yaoi bl that objectifies and fetishes men is...insane pop off I guess, granny.

it’s crazy to insert yourself in a conversation while not even being educated on what you’re speaking on it’s just plain ignorant and not to mention you are literally helping to perpetuate that narrative please check yourself if that’s what you came here for then that’s fine but don’t over generalize everyone in means for your justification because you can’t make a valid argument

And no, people in real life are NOT bothered by who bottoms in a gay relationship are you insane? An actual gay relationship is not a bl where one person is a twink and the other is macho Alpha. You can't just randomly insert terminology when it doesn't fit, misogyny = hatred against WOMEN. Op's comment was dumb and I don't agree with it but it isn't that serious bro, I was just confused because you are using the wrong terminology and it's crazy that you think a man who bottoms in a gay relationship is equivalent to a woman, that's so weird of you.

Like the way you rubbed your two brain cells together I never said that I believe that bottoms are women this is where you’re lacking reading comprehension I said, the male gaze that is rooted in chauvinism and misogyny views gay men this way like Omg you are soo ignorant it hurts yes people do care that’s why we have terms like a holes a hole, gay for pay, and down low please for the love of god stop talking about gay culture and discrimination if you don’t understand it and yes misogyny is tied into the way men view and treat the world we see this through bottoms trans and women how men police other men is routed in misogyny saying boys can’t wear make up wear dresses or play with dolls that stems from misogyny if you don’t understand simple concepts with cause and effect I can’t have a intellectual conversation with you there’s literally studies, statistics and science behind this it’s not the wrong terminology it’s just that you don’t understand it yes misogyny is the hate of women but it effects more than just women and can be applied to anything males find feminine