Toxic tbh. There is a mention of a safeword but mostly ML just does whatever he wants.
Thanks for the honest reply!
Guess i'll skip this one then :)
i believe the toxic bdsm happened like 2-3 times only then when they got together (which did not took too long) their relationship got healthy. there’s honestly not that much smut (in comparison to other BLs that got sex in every chapter). story wise this is good.
Came looking for an answer to this as soon as I've read it was bdsm, guess I'm gonna have to skip too
Ot isn't abput the relationship but more of the portrayal of BDSM i was askong about. Most is just so toxic. BDSM is on its core about adults who consent to explore sth together. Not just toxic rape shit with a bit of extra toys. And i am tired of reading the latter and people calling it BDSM. Thats just clickbait at this point and really dangerous for people who know nothing about it and wanna try things out.
i guess i didn’t explain further on that but the first two times they had sex, the seme proposed that he’d help the uke forget about his ex which he agreed. on the first time, it was more of a rough sex rather than BDSM. the uke then discovered his masochistic tendency when he slept with his ex and found out that he’s more aroused when he’s choked (tw). he kept remembering about his first night with the seme even after sleeping with his ex (he wasn’t aroused with just the normal sex anymore). the second time they had sex, the uke asked the seme to do it roughly so that he’d forget about his ex (uke was blindfolded and handcuffed). the first two times the uke asked him to stop when it got too intense for him but the seme didn’t (i guess this is the toxic part). if i remember correctly, the third time they slept was when they got together, the seme proposed a safe word but uke did not use it. seme wanted to be gentle but the uke wanted it rough.
i hope that explains it. you can skip this if it’s not to your liking. but i hope it doesn’t deter the others who would like to read this.
Before i start reading this: is it a healthy protray of BDSm or Just abusive toxic shit?