Before i start reading this: is it a healthy protray of BDSm or Just abusive toxic shit?

Toxic tbh. There is a mention of a safeword but mostly ML just does whatever he wants.

Thanks for the honest reply!
Guess i'll skip this one then :)

i believe the toxic bdsm happened like 2-3 times only then when they got together (which did not took too long) their relationship got healthy. there’s honestly not that much smut (in comparison to other BLs that got sex in every chapter). story wise this is good.

Came looking for an answer to this as soon as I've read it was bdsm, guess I'm gonna have to skip too

Ot isn't abput the relationship but more of the portrayal of BDSM i was askong about. Most is just so toxic. BDSM is on its core about adults who consent to explore sth together. Not just toxic rape shit with a bit of extra toys. And i am tired of reading the latter and people calling it BDSM. Thats just clickbait at this point and really dangerous for people who know nothing about it and wanna try things out.