Bro half the time I love how they are with sharing their past and not artificiallu extending problems etc And ml going al in with getting him to move in and even wanting to invest in their future by getting mc to go to uni and all but on the other hand holy shit ml really took one small thing and made it the core problem of the relationship
Like hello initially you weren't even truthful with him about your age and situation cause you "thought he'd believe rumors and leave" but mc tryna end the connection before he got hurt is somehow a huge sin you're still punishing him for? You were both tryna protect yourselves, but if anything mc has more to lose, if he blindlu threw himself in this with no backing out plan, it's not just his feelings that would get hurt, you're asking him to rely on you for his whole future and what if you back out one Day? It's way worse on him than if he backs out of the relationship on you... And you both want the same thing and fear the same thing, tou both want to be assured of the relationship and to last and for it to be something you can take for granted with no anxiety about it's end and mc is making the effort to accept your help and not treat it like it's a transaction and he owes you, be even confessed, all you had to do was to confess too and make it official so mc can feel like he this is a relationship and we're investing in our future together, instead you pull some bs "I adopted you, u got used to niceness toire asking for more? I know you'll leave one day" basically keeping him anxious and guaranteeing he can't take what you have for granted and rely on it and then you turn and blame him for it again...... If he keeps thinking of backing out plans it's all your doing, cause what is he to you? You can't even have the balls to say it out loud playing childish games like " YoUrR mY AdoOpTrF CaT" ass
Bro half the time I love how they are with sharing their past and not artificiallu extending problems etc And ml going al in with getting him to move in and even wanting to invest in their future by getting mc to go to uni and all but on the other hand holy shit ml really took one small thing and made it the core problem of the relationship
Like hello initially you weren't even truthful with him about your age and situation cause you "thought he'd believe rumors and leave" but mc tryna end the connection before he got hurt is somehow a huge sin you're still punishing him for? You were both tryna protect yourselves, but if anything mc has more to lose, if he blindlu threw himself in this with no backing out plan, it's not just his feelings that would get hurt, you're asking him to rely on you for his whole future and what if you back out one Day? It's way worse on him than if he backs out of the relationship on you...
And you both want the same thing and fear the same thing, tou both want to be assured of the relationship and to last and for it to be something you can take for granted with no anxiety about it's end and mc is making the effort to accept your help and not treat it like it's a transaction and he owes you, be even confessed, all you had to do was to confess too and make it official so mc can feel like he this is a relationship and we're investing in our future together, instead you pull some bs "I adopted you, u got used to niceness toire asking for more? I know you'll leave one day" basically keeping him anxious and guaranteeing he can't take what you have for granted and rely on it and then you turn and blame him for it again...... If he keeps thinking of backing out plans it's all your doing, cause what is he to you? You can't even have the balls to say it out loud playing childish games like " YoUrR mY AdoOpTrF CaT" ass