USER MANGOGA BLOCKED ME. So here is a reply to them. Unblock me if you're gonna argue with me and imply I'd let abusers get away with this behaviour IRL. Weirdo
I've read the entire thing and I know he's a horrible person. What I'm saying is i get the urge to mother him when he shows poor emotional regulation. It's a natural response to want to care for someone you care about
if i had a son and he was doing awful things, i would address those things properly. The difference is that jaekyung isn't actually my son + he's a grown man + he's not real. My comment was also meant in a lighthearted manner.
I've been raised and socialised as a woman, i know just like you that a real issue we're facing today is mothers excusing their sons actions. But that is a separate conversation. We are talking about a BL where a lot of people find escape in, i don't wanna have to preface every thing i say by "... but if he was real" because I trust everyone has the critical thinking skills to know that I, who grew up as a woman, who has a single mother who raised me on her own, who has been surrounded by women my entire life while being one (FTM), would not let this behaviour slide IRL.
Please stop jumping to conclusions over lighthearted comments. I get an urge to mother him because he shows poor emotional regulation and because he has anger issues clearly rooted in an abusive childhood. The way he acts mirrors, at least to me, a deeply unhappy childhood with a lot of abuse. Am I crazy for wanting to be a mother to people who never had one? If this was a woman, I'd feel the same.
It's not as deep as you're making it out to be
anyone else get an urge to mother and baby jaekyung? let me know