Bara is essentially old man strong yaoi I mean in my opinion lololol. It’s a genre that steps away from the stereotypical "uke" and "seme" dynamics seen in most BL. Unlike the typical "uke," who is often portrayed as weak, skinny, super pale, and lacking body or facial hair, bara features characters who break these stereotypes. it’s also why some people might not find it appealing
Lowk depends where and who you ask
If you seach what Bara is or ask tiktok, it's "gay manga by gay men" rlly broad concept if you ask me bc there's a ton of manhwas who are written by men that usually you wouldn't call bara
But when you seach Bara in manga sites is a genre with very masculine & muscular men, either all characters or at least whoever is the bottom. The style can be very crute and less romantic so some people don't like it
I'm assuming you want story and not porn which a lot of bara have so these are what I would recommend.
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/otouto_no_otto/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/my_son_is_probably_gay/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/midnight_rain_ctk/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/arai_kun_and_haruma_senpai/
https://www.mangago.zone/read-manga/motemote_yakyuubu_otoko_popular_baseball_club_boys/
whats bara and why does everyone dislike it