To everyone saying "oh, this is so toxic" and "she's so insecure".... yada yada yada... I'm not saying any of this is healthy or secure (because it is not), but a lot of y'all are hypocrites. Y'all are the first to say mental health matters, but when a mentally unwell character is having very real destructive mental health struggles you all are so quick to say you feel second hand embarrassment, call her insecure, toxic, scary, a creep and a loser. Would you ever say this to someone with depression disorder, or anxiety disorder? While a lot of you may not know this but this girl is going through textbook examples of borderline personality disorder (bpd). This is a long life and life threatening disorder which is triggered through interpersonal relationships and extreme life long trauma. People keep saying "oh, I know this is exaggerated because it is fictional" but no! This is actually an extremely realistic depiction of what it means to suffer through this disorder and have it wreak havoc on not only yourself but also the people you love. Ultimately, yes she does need help and proper support. These are not acceptable behaviors by any means, but to see a character suffering through a very real mental health disorder and have only contempt for them is so disgusting to read. Y'all only care about mental health when it's neatly packaged and contained with a lil bow on top. I hope y'all get the help and therapy y'all judgmentally say this character needs.
To everyone saying "oh, this is so toxic" and "she's so insecure".... yada yada yada... I'm not saying any of this is healthy or secure (because it is not), but a lot of y'all are hypocrites. Y'all are the first to say mental health matters, but when a mentally unwell character is having very real destructive mental health struggles you all are so quick to say you feel second hand embarrassment, call her insecure, toxic, scary, a creep and a loser. Would you ever say this to someone with depression disorder, or anxiety disorder? While a lot of you may not know this but this girl is going through textbook examples of borderline personality disorder (bpd). This is a long life and life threatening disorder which is triggered through interpersonal relationships and extreme life long trauma. People keep saying "oh, I know this is exaggerated because it is fictional" but no! This is actually an extremely realistic depiction of what it means to suffer through this disorder and have it wreak havoc on not only yourself but also the people you love. Ultimately, yes she does need help and proper support. These are not acceptable behaviors by any means, but to see a character suffering through a very real mental health disorder and have only contempt for them is so disgusting to read. Y'all only care about mental health when it's neatly packaged and contained with a lil bow on top. I hope y'all get the help and therapy y'all judgmentally say this character needs.