I know what you're talking about. My first relationship was with a guy that was decent and he was trying really hard, but I felt nothing at all. I was asking myself: Why are people even doing this? Where is the pleasure? He could lick there for and hour, and nothing Then I met another guy and that was something else. So I understood one thing: if there is no chemistry, it's meh
Believe me I was in your shoes. Even if I was a fervent smut reader, I stayed a virgin until my late 20s. And then, while I was traveling for my 2nd Master’s degree, I met someone in the same dorm who had the same interests and everything. Introvert like me as well, but an experienced manwhore . We developed a good friendship but we knew we were attracted to each other and I lost my virginity to him. I wouldn’t say that we were in love but we discovered that we were really physically compatible, like insanely, and boy oh boy did that switch something in my mind. If you the find the right person and it goes well you’ll even wonder how are you just getting into it now. But it should be at your own pace and moment with someone who counts. Because to this day, years after that relationship I am really glad that it happened the way it did and allowed me discover new things about myself and body that I didn’t know.
Also because we weren’t exclusive, my sex life really took a turn and I regret nothing (⌒▽⌒)
Also, sorry if my writing is a bit jumbled, French is my main language
Yes, it is good. Specially with someone you like. I mean, you don't have to wait for the right one to make it work, but damn, some bodies were make to fuck together.
I lost my V away late than my friends. And the situations were more enjoyable than the sex. And it was like that for a few years and a few people. Until I met a guy in my karate class. And I tell you, athletes fuck so good. Sex with him made me horny all the time. It gets cold when our political opinion got in the way.
Now, when I met my wife, I knew heaven. I'm not as horny all the time as it was with this guy (I'm not as young), but our sex is greater, a lot better. So I say, it is better with someone you like.
Y’all is sex rlly that good? I’m a virgin but I was in a relationship before but it was kinda sexual like he would eat me out a lot but it was never enjoyable and neither is masturbation so I always thought the fmc feeling so much pleasure was all fantasy or sum