Umm

I don't know if some don't understand what grooming does to a child who's being s**ually ab*** especially by a family member with power. Yes we should still call out toxic behavior from everyone including those who are victims but no where should we decide how one should cope with that trauma. It's very common to see different sides, one wants to hide it to protect the one not affected, feelings of being unloved and seeing yourself as tainted is common for a survivor to feel, while one side who saw someone is going through the same thought they would be there for them but realized that wasn't the case which is still horrible to feel and that can do damage to them as well. The way both characters ended up even as adults isn't all that shocking to me. We shouldnt judge how each experience or how they want to deal with their trauma, they both need help. However the abuse they're causing others is not okay. The middle brother is asshole but if he knew what was happening to both his brothers I don't think he would care about the father. The old brother is a gaslighter for sure and what hes doing now as adult isnt okay. He's not protecting the abuser but his younger brother and uses Minjae as a way to get his way. And minjae using this dude for his revenge isn't okay too. The real true villain is the pedophile, the father. He probably stopped abusing the older brother as soon as he got older which probably why he adopted Minjae too.

Sorry for my grammar.