I'm not in danger but it's kinda... he's fully devoted to me. Idk. Help.

loading...ヤオイ May 2, 2017 6:04 pm

This isn't About manga...
But I need advice cause....yeah.
I am 19. And I have a REALLY shy boyfriend.

Basically, at the start we only talked a bit on messages and then I got to know him. He was REALLY nice and actually seemed like he was interested and Was always happy to see me. BUT...He won't come near me all that often. He try's to get close to me and my mates get in the way. I've asked him about it and he said he's shy and doesn't want everyone's to know cause he hasn't a friend who teases him about him liking me (which I only recently found out) so our relationship is currently a secret. As much as I want everyone (-ish) to know about it...he doesn't. But I'm going with his decision. He's also really possessive. (Though he's not open about it is obvious on his face) He gets jealous of anyone that comes near me (excluding family) girls included since I'm bi. I'm possessive And all but his is like... Σ(っ°Д °;)っ as much as I love possessive yandere (ish) guys...
I DONT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT.
What do I say? I get jealous too? Okay? Dump him??? I really don't want to. And I don't know why I asked for this advice on here.

Just help.

Responses
    daynight May 2, 2017 6:23 pm

    You should talk this out with him honestly. Communication is key in relationship. Also the part where he doesn't like anyone coming on to you just because you're Bi sound a little biphobic, obviously he doesn't trust you enough, damn.

    MiraK May 2, 2017 6:24 pm

    So basically....he doesn't want anyone to know that you're together because he's ''shy'' and he's jealous of everyone that comes into contact with you? Have you considered that he wants to keep you secret so he can still portray himself as single and date other chicks? Dump his ass, he's an asshole with major issues. But in your post you also say that you don't really want to dump him and you don't really know why you're asking for advice here. So then... what exactly do you want?

    Anonymous May 2, 2017 6:49 pm
    So basically....he doesn't want anyone to know that you're together because he's ''shy'' and he's jealous of everyone that comes into contact with you? Have you considered that he wants to keep you secret so he... @MiraK

    Woah, that's pretty hasty. By what their saying, the boyfriend comes off as an asshole but it's no good just drawing random conclusions; I'd say the best thing is to talk about the issues and then act accordingly. Though, this isn't the best place to ask for relationship advice and the guy doesn't seem like the nicest person

    loading...ヤオイ May 2, 2017 8:22 pm
    You should talk this out with him honestly. Communication is key in relationship. Also the part where he doesn't like anyone coming on to you just because you're Bi sound a little biphobic, obviously he doesn't... daynight

    I kinda agree with you.... ╥﹏╥