As a 155 cm tall girl who loves size difference, I personally invested in self-defense lessons and very much avoid men with anger issues at all costs (￣∇￣")
I don’t even know if not having anger issues is a redeeming factor here cause the thing some men will do because they felt “disrespected/humiliated” is crazy
Honestly, that’s probably true for a much smaller difference in size than you think.
Same
I find it attractive only in fiction
That's less to do with the person's size and everything to do with the type of person they are. If a man wants to hurt you, he's going to do so regardless of what he looks like. If a man wants to treat you well, he's going to do so regardless of what he looks like.
There's nothing inherently wrong with their size difference. It's really about your perception of men and your fear of what they're capable of. So people who don't have those fears wouldn't share those sentiments. In fact, from another perspective, some women would be reassured by the size difference, because it makes them feel protected. It’s just a matter of perspective and personal preference.
As a 1m65 girl who like big men who are sporty i can say that they are the most self disciplined type of men. It had always been a behaviour issue. The most abusive partner i know in my circle are short men with big temper. You can say it is not your type but dont fear them ^^
I mean even if he’s not abusive if he ever plays roughly with you he could just go ahead and break your back/wrist/arm/ankle/neck without even meaning to.. Did you aver fake wrestle with your man and started feeling helpless cause he didn’t move an inch ? Like if he holds you down, or try to force intimacy there is nothing you could ever do to get out of his lock.
Clearly, and I know most small girl like much bigger men. I’m not small at all, I’m literally 180cm, imo if I found myself in a relationship with this much size difference as theirs I would find it scary. I never said there was something wrong with it. “I” find it scary, if they don’t it’s all good, but I’m just sharing my pov on the question.
Welp, I’m 158 cm and my exs are 177, 186, 191… Still they never laid their hands on me, no yelling or cheating either. Of course I love size difference but it’s not like I will date every tall man on earth. Some are scary and shady, some don’t. Which is why I always make sure to date only the man I feel safe to be around.
I get that. I was sharing my pov mainly because of the question you posed to preface your comment: “People really like this type of size difference?”
People really like this type of size difference? For me I find it scary, cause it means that if man your man ever looses his temper and hits you this could very well be the last time you walk on earth.