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No, I totally agree. I just binged the whole thing and found myself getting annoyed at Yohan. Like bro Eunho is a full fledged adult just because he is baby doesn’t mean you need to treat him like one. This is the guy he’s liked for six years let him navigate his own relationship. It reminds me of the way people act when their favorite child actors transition to more adult roles.
True.
This might sound redundant or may just be an unpopular opinion and I am just at chapter 36 but Yohan had no right getting between the other two men.
Yeah he is gay himself. Congratulations. And yes, he is protective of Eunho because he is naive and is easily taken advantage of, so him being wary of Eunho being taken advantage due to his subservient nature is kind of justified. We all want to take care of friends, especially other queer friends who don't quite know their worth and stick themselves in muddy situations.
But let's not forget that Jaewon too is queer, he did claim to being bisexual (not out to the other members, but that gives no one the right to judge him or assume his sexuality. queer people should only come out when they deem necessary. that's their right.) and being one he too is allowed to take his time coming to terms with the sudden fact that Eunho likes him. Just because another man likes him doesn't mean he HAS to like him back. And he was very, very honest with Eunho and it was Eunho himself inspite of it all wanted to continue that relationship on vague terms.
They are testing the waters and queer people are allowed to take a test run before parking the car in the garage just like everyone.
What Yohan is essentially doing is infantalizing Eunho, who seemed and did confess to being totally able to take care of himself and he does know when he is being taken advantage of or when he is disliked or in situations he is unwanted.
Being gay yourself, doesn't give you the right to insert yourself, your ideologies or project your own thought processes or experiences into other queer relationships.
I just wanted to rant. I don't really know what happens after but of course, I am going to keep reading forward. Just wanted to get this off my chest.