This is ironic because a good portion of straight and bl comics suffer from the similar problems you’ve stated but you seem to have no issue with reading them despite the bad apples. But considering how you’re aware of how you’re avoiding gl because of preconceived notions, I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt
More well known good ones :
Tamen de Gushi
The Guy She Was in Love with Wasn’t a Guy at All
^ these two are fem/masc, check them out first and see if you like em or are too cliche for you.
I Love Amy
Getting to Know Grace
Her Tale of Shim Cheong
Love Bullet
Kimi no Tame no Curtain Call
Bloom Into You
How do we Relationship
Ohana Holoholo
The Summer You Were There (angst)
There is No Love Wishing Upon a Star (angst)
Sherbet Above the Sea of Fog
Destroy it All and Love Me in Hell (psychological)
Your Fetters (psychological)
Girl in the Birdcage
Colorful Antimony
Ano Ko ni Kiss to Shirayuri wo
Hanamonogatari
Makoto no Momoka (oneshot)
The Moon on a Rainy Night
A Joyful Life
Artificial Temperature 36.7℃
Drifting Into Summer
Run Away With Me, Girl
My Dear Lass
Adachi to Shimamura
Some of them are in https://www.mangago.zone/home/mangalist/2975522/
Okay I love bl and I love straight comics. No I am not homophobic when it comes to gl. I like watching shows or movies with or based on gl. But every gl comic I’ve come across has either one very fem girl and one very masc girl (nothing wrong with that but I’d love some more variety) or it just seems sexist. The mc has no personality aside from male cliches like she’s fem so she’s cute, helpless, needs to be protected. Or she’s masc so because she can handle herself she’s a b*tch. And with zero plot besides that they are shocked they find another girl attractive and go from 0 to suddenly horny. Anyway this was all to say I’m so tired of avoiding gl comics just because I’ve only found bad ones so far. So please I beg you gl gods. Please send me some good gl to liberate me from my straight/Bl cage.