I need a help

Addie January 16, 2025 10:58 am

So a friend of mine is too touchy and doesn't listen when I tell her not to touch me. Also I don't say it rudely. Here's how our conversation goes:

*Friend leans towards me/touches me*
Me: hey uh can u not touch me rn?
Her: why lol*does it even more*
Me: uhhh can you please not?
Her: whyyyy
Me: cuz I just don't like it
Her: oho I don't like many things too
Me: *moves away*
Her: *keeps going on*
Me: pls don't I'm saying no right?

And it keeps repeating unless I walk away totally forgot something. I don't hate her, just don't like her being too close to me. Any other way i can tell her not too?

Responses
    Petal27 January 16, 2025 11:42 am

    Don't want to bash your friend or anything but that should be enough to get her to stop you couldn't be any clearer in telling them maybe lightly push her away if the first "stop" doesn't stop her and tell her "hey I'm getting a bit overwhelmed right now could you just give me a bit of space?" Or just tell her straight up that you aren't a fan of being touchy like that ( -_・)? I feel like I said nothing useful lol but.......┐('~`;)┌ good luck to you!!

    Coquette_n_Creme January 16, 2025 1:19 pm

    Don't wanna assume things, maybe she's interested in you
    OR
    (pardon the ff text, not really good at explaining and I'm bored so I'll be blabbering here)

    If OP is a male,
    there are these cases wherein some people seek a feeling of being in certain a situation or a relationship dynamic with someone.

    For example, the "friend tropes" that you see in stories Hot x Cold, loud x Quiet type of people. When you look at those kind of pairs there is always an atmosphere that would emanate from them like something funny, cute,,, etc... In short, i think your friend wants people to see you both in a certain type of dynamic like a quirky duo or a very close duo, like I have a brother who i am close with and always has my back or like we've been best friend since birth so therefore we get along like this. Which is why she's being clingy if in a public setting.

    If it's just you two, its either the first reason or she likes teasing you or she's a person who has not heard of boundaries before and thinks she is entitled to skin ship however she likes

    There could also be other possibilities but I am rudely assuming enough so~

    Addie January 17, 2025 2:59 pm
    Don't want to bash your friend or anything but that should be enough to get her to stop you couldn't be any clearer in telling them maybe lightly push her away if the first "stop" doesn't stop her and tell her ... Petal27

    Tysm, I'm really the type who can't say the word "no" and she just makes fun of me if I say stuff like jn getting overwhelmed, like i tell her I get overstimulated and panic attacks and she does it even more....

    Addie January 17, 2025 3:00 pm
    Don't wanna assume things, maybe she's interested in you OR (pardon the ff text, not really good at explaining and I'm bored so I'll be blabbering here) If OP is a male,there are these cases wherein some people... Coquette_n_Creme

    Oh I'm female (tho I'm lesbian) but ig that could be it, she's rlly pampered in her house n talks like a 5 year old ....

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:28 am
    Don't wanna assume things, maybe she's interested in you OR (pardon the ff text, not really good at explaining and I'm bored so I'll be blabbering here) If OP is a male,there are these cases wherein some people... Coquette_n_Creme

    if she was interested in her....she only has a few more hours left to live.(chill guys)

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:30 am
    if she was interested in her....she only has a few more hours left to live.(chill guys) akuma

    omg wait IS THIS WHO I THINK IT IS OMGGG DUDEEEEE HIIIII!!!!! (pls tell me yk who im talkimg abt here-)

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:30 am
    if she was interested in her....she only has a few more hours left to live.(chill guys) akuma

    also what does this meann-

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:33 am
    omg wait IS THIS WHO I THINK IT IS OMGGG DUDEEEEE HIIIII!!!!! (pls tell me yk who im talkimg abt here-) Addie

    OMG YES DUDE. omg u recognised yes. (yes i do)

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:34 am
    also what does this meann- Addie

    ill kill them :D (i wont dont report me-)

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:37 am
    ill kill them :D (i wont dont report me-) akuma

    but whyy they'er our friends c'moonnnn, i keep sayin this to u

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:37 am
    ill kill them :D (i wont dont report me-) akuma

    why are we even doinf this in mangago WE MEET IRL-

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:38 am
    ill kill them :D (i wont dont report me-) akuma

    (if they like u ill tear them to pieces)

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:39 am
    but whyy they'er our friends c'moonnnn, i keep sayin this to u Addie

    they dont deserve the great personality u have ok- ur too precious

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:40 am
    why are we even doinf this in mangago WE MEET IRL- Addie

    IDK-

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:40 am
    (if they like u ill tear them to pieces) akuma

    lol i get that you've always been aggressive,, now it seems as if u have a crush me or something lol? this probably looks wrong to others OK-

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:41 am
    they dont deserve the great personality u have ok- ur too precious akuma

    ur so sweet ahaha <3

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:41 am
    IDK- akuma

    .....- we met in a illegal website, another inside joke to us

    Addie May 30, 2025 11:42 am
    .....- we met in a illegal website, another inside joke to us Addie

    stumbled upon each other to be exact

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:44 am
    lol i get that you've always been aggressive,, now it seems as if u have a crush me or something lol? this probably looks wrong to others OK- Addie

    took u long enough to understand-

    akuma May 30, 2025 11:44 am
    ur so sweet ahaha <3 Addie

    im spitting facts-