I can’t lie I overthink everything. I just can’t control it unless there’s someone there to tell me “stop overthinking and just do it”. I have no idea why I just stare at messages trying to find out what’s wrong with them or why I don’t know how to respond to simple messages like “wsp” without sounding stupid. It just happens so I kinda get what’s going on with the mc but after it’s been a while I’ll be like “yo what’s going on?”
But like why torture yourself into being stressed and then wonder why you are stressed. Maybe ML is a whore but then atleast you know it instead of this shit. MC is getting on my nerves
I agree, I overthink a lot too. but the MC has to step his ground because oh boy this is frustrating. Maybe he is in another level of overthinking because of his ex
it's not something we can control you know (〜￣△￣)〜
Yep it just happens
Ok I'm trying to understand. So you physically can't write the question you want to know about in situations like this? And if there is a chance you can why do this to yourself? Is this something one can learn? I wouldn't want to live like this. I mean it's not like I never think to much about something but most of the time I just do it. Not being able to do that sounds fucking exhausting
I think it’s similar to how some people say “i wish i never asked” after hearing a respond to their own question. especially for anxious people, sometimes finding out the truth they didnt want may feel even worse than being in constant wonder
Yeah but asking something always has the chance to hear something you don't wanna hear. That's life or am I wrong? Like there will be times where life goes the way you want it and times where it doesn't. It's the same the other way around. A person themself will say things that other won't like to hear, but so it is then. I'm truly trying to understand but it seems like I can't
While true, it doesn’t necessarily deter people from going against it. there are probably things that you do that can come across as irrational to other people; we all do things for the sake of our own comfort.
a more extreme example i can think of was when a person told me they want kids but cant because they are afraid of their child dying from a public shooting. is death a part of the risk of life? yes. would telling them that make them change their decision and lessen their anxiety? probably not.
again thats a little extreme, but anxiety can make things feel that way. you dont have to understand, just give grace or be patient with others. that is simply how they cope with things.
Wtf, that's why I hate overthinkers. If I wanna know something, I fucking ASK. It's not that hard. I can't with people like that