The ladies don't disturb me

Well, I can't talk for everyone here, but what bothers me the most isn't the harem aspect, but rather how the MC was framed as an anti-harem from the veryyy beginning. His story is sort of founded on this promise to himself that he will never marry/love more than one wife to avoid becoming like his father and eveb start another heir war again. So, to see him accepting another woman (and if you read any spoilers, there's going to be one more, so three in total) makes me feel like I was given false hope! If the MC was all into harem and multiple women from the start, then I wouldn't have personally minded. In addition, the utterly stupid way in which the silver haired woman was added to the plot just makes my blood boil, so she's not really well-liked!
This is ofc just my point of view!

I see, considering his past history with his mother and all, truth to be told harem shouldn't come back with him.
The latter half of my comment was deleted it seems.
The marriage with the white hair lady was actually quite understandable.

Our main heroine, his main love is gonna be a marriage of love.
And the silver hair is a more of a "I'll take responsibility for your honor".
He did took her virginity to save her life, so, it's more of respect towards her and her father.
But I absolutely didn't knew about that third wife, so it does change something...

I see, considering his past history with his mother and all, truth to be told harem shouldn't come back with him.
The latter half of my comment was deleted it seems.
The marriage with the white hair lady was actually quite understandable.
Our main heroine, his main love is gonna be a marriage of love.
And the silver hair is a more of a "I'll take responsibility for your honor".
He did took her virginity to save her life, so, it's more of respect towards her and her father.
But I absolutely didn't knew about that third wife, so it does change something...