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no BDSM is done right because its FICTION, so it would likely be rape fantasy. look at the numerous BLs and straight stuff.
no bdsm isn’t done right because bdsm isn’t all about non-consensual acts. the whole premise of bdsm is respect, communication, CONSENT and comfortability. using the BL/straight mangas/manhwas as examples of what bdsm is strikes me as odd considering they wouldn’t even be cnc. it would just be sexual assault due to the fact that there was no prior consent given.
I’ve noticed that femdom bdsm are never done right, i dunno i love a good bdsm story but I’ve never read a good femdom one.
I would love to read one that actually respects the bdsm community and isn’t some bs!!