Well usually sadist enjoy their partner being in some sort of pain which is why they partner with masochist which are people who enjoy being in pain, but obviously there are safe words just in case which is why he stopped!^_^
maybe it’s common for bdsm, i mean we can’t really associate bdsm with normal sex, it’s unhinged sex but it is reckless of both of them to get right to it without specifying what kind of play is okay and they didn’t even decide on safe words too
I love we see his fantasy vs the reality of him stopping when told it is to much though! We can fantasize about one thing and know it might not be realistic.
he wants to do anal with no prep to purposely hurt his partner and enjoys it?!??? I'm all for people getting freaky... but there's been no trust or boundaries established between these two, and no conversation about what is and isn't okay to do. And he knew it was his first time too which makes it even worse sure he didn't go through with it but the fact that he thought it and has done it to other people... unless there's consent and his partner actually enjoys getting their ass ripped (idk how anyone would) then he needs to think before he acts. Lets see how this develops I guess...