what is wtih all those "i discovered i was pregnant so i sent him a letter/called him" where they never actually put the reason in the letter/say it during the call and just ask to meet to talk about it in person, like of course that's the ideal situation, but if he wont listen, it's your responsibility to make him listen or at least say it plainly so that you'll have the leverage to say "i told you" and not "i tried to tell you"
what is wtih all those "i discovered i was pregnant so i sent him a letter/called him" where they never actually put the reason in the letter/say it during the call and just ask to meet to talk about it in person, like of course that's the ideal situation, but if he wont listen, it's your responsibility to make him listen or at least say it plainly so that you'll have the leverage to say "i told you" and not "i tried to tell you"